I just recently met with this guy and we chat alot on the phone but we met for the fist time and i was really attracted to him. Is it a good idea to tell him how i feel or shall i wait and let him make the first move.
2006-09-17 10:07:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes of course it is, he may feel the same and just be shy, and there is the thing of you maing the first move, tht can be very exciting for a guy,
go for it girl
2006-09-17 10:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by jimmytesco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there some middle ground that will let you test the waters? Something like "I think you're great!"?
It's hard to take a statement like that wrong, and the guy's response might tell you whether he was receptive to a romantic relationship. It might also give him the guts to make a move if he is interested - some guys are really nervous about getting rejected.
Best of luck!
2006-09-17 17:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by IrritableMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to tell anyone how you feel about them; love-wise. Some people do not know how to react to it, not because they don't appreciate it, but because the word love carries with it many cage bars that some people are not yet ready to be confined into. They thus like to wait to say and/or hear the word only once they are sure it's the person they want to be confined by.
2006-09-17 17:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's NEVER a good idea to tell a guy you just met that you really like him.
2006-09-17 17:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him make the first move just to make sure that you two are on the same level. If you're feelings are more intense than his, you wouldn't want him to take advantage of your feelings.
2006-09-17 17:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Classygurl206 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've got the confidence to do it i say go for it! I met a guy I like on firday and we been texting each other and I'd love to be able to say to him, look I like you lets meet up, but I'm too chicken!
2006-09-17 17:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by greenday_fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait to make sure he's not just being friendly. You wouldn't want to ruin the friendship if that's all he wants. Keep it social but make sure he knows you like him alot, just not in that way yet. Work up to it gradually.
2006-09-17 17:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by claire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell him, Let him tell you first then you would know if he is playing u or he really likes u. If he know u really liked him he could use that to get what ever he wants, even if he doesn't like u that much.
2006-09-17 17:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by S-n-S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him then go from there he might be thinking the same thing but unsure how to approach the situation. You will never know until you do something.
2006-09-17 17:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good idea if you are ready to accept the decision he gives you on his opinion of you. Honesty is always the best policy....noone likes headgames.
2006-09-17 17:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by For sure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋