He doesn't want to even try to get a better job, this is the deal we live in an expensive city in California he makes $600 a month!!! I make about 3 times that. I want to get a better apt. he wont look for a better job. Why are some guys so damm lazy?
2006-09-17 10:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we just are. we store up all that energy like a bear in hibernation, and use it when neccesary.
2006-09-17 10:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by dudekunle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to meet a jobless man. Your boyfriend has a job does not make him lazy. He may like what he does. He may not want anything else. I know you do not want to hear it but the problem seems to be with you wanting and he isn't delivering. A relationship should never be based on money or should it be a controlling factor. Rather then call a working man lazy. If he isn't giving you enough then maybe he just isnt the man you are looking for.
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2006-09-17 17:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is lazy now and doesnt even attempt to change it will only get worse if you get married. My friend has been married for like 7 yrs now has 2 small kids and one on the way. she is responsible to keep the house clean, pay the bills, do the yard work, do all the laundry, make dinner, work full time, and keep the kids happy. All he does is work 5 days a week. he rarely brings the mail home wich he passes on his way to work, sometimes he forgets to feed the animals especially if it is raining. he sleeps til after 11 am everyday since he works 330pm to 11pm he is up til like 4am. on fri he sleeps in his play room which is a separate buidling so on sat morning he is not disturbed with her cleaning and doing laundry. My friend stays tired all the time. I say you aint married if he dont want to work on this part of his life..lose him!!!
2006-09-18 10:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is the same way. When we first met his house was so disgusting that I wouldn't use the bathroom. Now that we are married he hasn't changed and yours probably won't either. Our house is falling apart around us and he just sit there in his lazy boy with his lap top. It's hard to deal with but for some reason I love him. You'll have to figure out if you love your boyfriend enough to over look his short coming's. Good luck!
2006-09-17 17:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by eeeeeeeeclipse 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not, if u are making 3 times more than him why should he find a better job. He is just using u, I would get rid of him.
2006-09-17 17:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by S-n-S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he likes his job. i would rather have a job that i love that pays less than a job that i hate that pays more.
i was in that same boat. i was an assistant manager making about 2500 a month and he does body piercings learning how to tattoo. he doesnt make crap. it was really hard b/c when i wanted to go out and do stuff i would always have to pay b/c he didnt have any money. it would cause fights so finaly i kicked him out and that solved the problem. we still date though. but now he has money to do stuff and we dont fight as much
2006-09-17 17:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by sx_rx_rocknroll 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't want to better himself then out grow him an your old apt. an move on with out him guys like that are a dime a dozen!trust me get out while the gettings good!!!
2006-09-17 17:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by TERESA L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Some" in some guys is the key word here. He is lazy. You don't like it? There are a lot of guys that are not lazy and are ambitious. Find one of them.
2006-09-17 17:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably has low self-esteem issues. Has anything happened to him to keep him down in the past? Instead of adding to his worries, help him, reassure him and play to his strengths and within time he will come to his senses.
2006-09-17 17:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently you're putting up with it. Lots of guys will only rise as far up as you set the bar!
2006-09-17 17:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No initiative or incentive on his part.
He is satisfied with his life the way it is. Get used to it. You will never get out of the "Poor" mode as long as you are with him.
2006-09-17 17:12:35 · answer #11 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋