(He went clubbing alot in the 90s and is very handsome). How can you keep him from getting bored of you and how can you get him to marry you especially since he looks at other women ALOT. We have been together a year and that is a record for him, longest girlfriend ever.Don't worry, we both don't have any stds.
2006-09-17 09:57:09 · 20 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't get him to do anything. He's a person; furthermore, he's a man. He won't change his mind about anything unless he ultimately decides on his own that he wants to. Take my advice darling and run the other direction.
I have been in your position before. I was with a man for more than a year who before me had been such a player. We were even engaged. Your man won't stop looking at other women (even if by some miracle he manages to control it while you're around). And to be honest, there is a high chance of infidelity.
My advice is this: If you want a man who's committed to the ideas of family, etc... and who isn't gonna miss things like clubbing and partying... *DON'T* look in clubs. (Here's a big surprise: I met my ex-fiance in a club.)
The man I'm with now, I've been with him for almost a year. I met him through friends. We've only been out to a club once. He's a hard-working guy who wants a wife and family and doesn't mind going to church. I suggest you try to find someone like that. Just my .10
2006-09-17 10:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think...every person he's slept with, you've slept with, too. This assuming you've slept together.
What normal person actually sleeps with that many people?
Do you think maybe he has a sexual addiction? This is an actual disease/condition.
Do you think he's gonna get bored of you? You should ask him. As a couple you should really put things out on the table (if you already haven't, which you should have after being together for a year) so you know where the relationship is going.
This is something that must ALWAYS be in the back of your mind and I wish you all the luck with this situation.
:)
2006-09-17 10:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by mitchmase 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that he's a christian if he's allowing his flesh to take administration. If I have been you i'd break away him till he supplies God that component to his life via fact or you would be harm constantly. i'd tell him that God mentioned for him to contemporary his physique as a residing sacrifice unto Him Romans 12:a million-2. that is not correct if he grow to be abused whilst he grow to be youthful. If he made Jesus Christ the Lord of his life he would desire to be allowing the Lord to heal those wombs that he has been harm. purely understand which you too prefer healing from what has take place in you 2 life. Restrange your self from sexual sins with him previously you do get stds or aids. God desires us to stay Holy lives not unholy lives. God bless you.
2016-12-18 12:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think after 1500 women, he might be seeking a new way of life...maybe something on a more profound level. In my opinion, if he is still looking at other women, then he has not changed nor is ready to change his old hound dog ways.
2006-09-17 10:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by Signilda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you won't keep his attention. eventually he will either cheat on you or leave you, probably both. any man that has been with that many women is definitely disgusting and most likely a sex addict. find a good man. you'll be happier in the long run.
2006-09-17 10:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by aj607 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't date a guy that has slept with that many people. Major turn off!
2006-09-17 09:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are u crazy or what, Dump him and move on, no telling what he may have, He is a user is that what u want to be used and then dumped..That's whats going to happen.
2006-09-17 10:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by larry B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry aobut it.. just be yourself. If he decides he wants to stray he will stray. I think it's somehting he has to deal with not you.
I have had trouble being faithful too.. and have been with a lot of girls. I just love women though. One thing that has helped me though is that she told me if I ever wanted to be with another girl she said she wants me to do it if it is somehting that excites me. And her attitude makes me want to be true to her even more..
2006-09-17 10:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is as footloose as you say, he isn't going to be around that much longer, so enjoy whatever time you have left together.
2006-09-17 10:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you share anything in common? Try getting into something he likes or getting him into something you like and see where that takes you. If he really does like you, he won`t become bored with you.
2006-09-17 10:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋