My boyfriend and I have recently started having sex. However, I cant tell weather or not he really loves me or hes only using me for sex. How can I tell what he really thinks of me?
2006-09-17 09:22:29 · 22 answers · asked by Jennifer T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
We've been together for about 1 year.
2006-09-17 09:25:22 · update #1
ask him what he thinks of you. if he is lair than you probably already know in your heart what kind of person he is. but a year is long time to wait just to get sex.
2006-09-18 04:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the easy way, but you might not like it... Try explaining to him that you feel that sex has too much of a role in your relationship, that you would like to take some time to step back from sex and instead dive into being better partners in your relationship.
If he agrees, then you will either see good results or a negative truth will be revealed. If he immediately rails against the idea, you already have your answer. I hope this advice helps!
2006-09-17 16:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by omegazeto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he will stop having sex with you until your are married. Sex is for married people only! He is getting what he is wanting. As they say " Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free!" If he wants the milk the will have to buy the cow with a wedding ring. God made sex pleasurable, and made it so that married couples could enjoy each other. You are sinning against God. Stop it!
2006-09-17 16:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll be doing sweet nothings for you...the way he kisses you, the things he says, ask ppl about him. He'll want to be around you all the time, showing you lots of attention without always wanting sex.
How long have you been together before having sex, thatll help answer the question for you too.
2006-09-17 16:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell if he starts treating you differently from the way he treated you before. Any person who uses his or her partner for sex only is just set for a temporary relationship because the person will get bored, tired, and most likely will find another relationship.
2006-09-17 16:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him go with out sex for a while.. If he stays and does other things for you without you having to do stuff in return he cares.. Make sure he loves you incase the worst happens.. Be sure before you have sex he is the one you would want to have children with.. Hey it could happen...
2006-09-17 16:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's just in it or the sex then all he talks about is sex, all he cares about is sex. The best way to find out is test him with it, dont have sex with him for awhile and see if he chooses to stay.
2006-09-17 16:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by [Pro♥Mom] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? The younger you are the more likely he's in it just for the sex no matter how long you've been together. You could just ask too.
2006-09-17 16:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by melashell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex without commitment isn't a loving act. There is no way to tell what he really thinks...only time and demonstrated commitment will reveal it.
2006-09-17 16:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by tbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he got everything he could want without any commitment. So, whats it matter what he thinks about you.
He thinks you're fun to play with, and nice to have around. But he's not obligated to love you, he's not your husband.
You'll just have to talk to him and ask him how he feels about you. But generally a womans intuition is right.
2006-09-17 16:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋