If a man is married unhappily and just for the sake of family doesn't go for divorce, yet the wife is happy if he intends to be with another person, then what do you say about it.
2006-09-17 09:22:21 · 30 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I HAVE HAD THE SAME EXPERIENCE mate,i know what you are feeling. my answer is (and have acted on this) after a couple of years pondering is you only live once and you have to be fair to yourself as well,go with what makes you happy ,i have a kid and didnt want to leave her,after a few weeks it got better and when i did see her we had great quality time together,and my life was on the up because i wasnt waking up every morning thinking why am i still here in this relationship..
only you can make the right moves& i wish you the best
2006-09-17 09:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by brian 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is unfair to the both of you, especially the women, it shows that she loves you so much not to loose you, and you dont find many people like that in the world, it maybe hard for the both of you, but realisticaly talking, why dont you seperate and divorce, take time away from each other and then when you no that it aint gonna work out, divorce and then do what you got to do, although she says that you can be with somene else while your married to her put yourself in her situation no matter what she is like aint it gonna hurt her, dont hurt her and yourself, you both deserve better then that, do it the proper way , but that is only my opinion
2006-09-17 16:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by sweetlikehoney_73 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean the wife is happy to share the husband with another woman? This is very unusual. I think most women are not so generous with their husbands. Are you sure the wife really means this? Don't forget there's the question of finance, time and resources. Does the man have so much money and time to share with two women?
2006-09-17 16:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its too much of a mess for you to get involved too.
They should sort out their problems, it is possible, they've tried hard i'm sure, but not hard enough. They married for a reason and that hasn't changed, they just need to remind themselves of that reason.
The wife may be scared of her kids losing their father altogether, hence this is why she is allowing it, but it must be agony for her to let that happen - shes just putting the kids first.
All problems between a couple can be solved but most of the time its the hardest thing in the world to achieve. But its possible with some effort.
2006-09-17 16:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by lakmii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if it would be fine. But the man could never bring up the other woman or bring her around the children and same for the woman with a man. But then again it could all backfire if she takes you to court. If you really think she's fine with it then go ahead. Just go with your gut feeling. Women tend to bite men in the *** and in this situation I would do it.
2006-09-17 16:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's a sad situation. But at least give the women dignity and Divorce her first before being with another women. think very hard before you leave the first women for a new one though. Good luck and God Bless you!
2006-09-17 16:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone is happy, roll along with life. If kids are involved it's the only fair solution. It's very hard being the other women tho, especially at xmas, bank holidays, summer holidays etc when the kids come first.
2006-09-17 16:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by oozie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his wife is lying,and staying together for the sake of the kids wont work.kids are smart,they know their parents dont get along.get a divorce now,save urself years of bickering and unhappiness.kids hear everything,even if u think they dont.
2006-09-17 16:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lyn K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just got the green light for an open marriage but it will get old over time since you're unhappy.
2006-09-17 16:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if 1 person is unhappy within a marriage then i would suggest they have some me time and space to discover what it is they really want, and then if both parties are happy as they were before then good luck to them
2006-09-17 16:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by magiclady2007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋