My ex has a bracelet of mine, not so expensive, but sentimental. I got it as a gift from my mom, a wooden hand carved bangle made especially 4 me. Everyone who has seen it finds it breath takingly beautiful.
I was helped him do some work at his house once. I took it off and forgot to put it back on. We broke up for summer break but not exactly on the best terms. During that time he told me hed send them to me. After waiting about a month I called him, asked him what was up, his plan was to keep them till i got back so he could be sure hed be seeing me again.
Ive been back for about 4 weeks now, I saw him the 2nd week and he did not have it. I dont want anythign to do with him anymore. I just want my bracelet. Problem is: hes only available when he wants to be! I call and call, with no answer. The plan is to call make one last attempt in speaking to him or leaving a message. he has 3 days to respond. if not i will 4get about the bangle, him, and change my number.
2006-09-17 08:47:56 · 3 answers · asked by Romina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it worth it to even call him once again? even changing my number. I want to change it cuz even tho I want to be through with him, he can make me weak at times. I know If I change it, itll be hard to contact me, which I know he would eventually, just on his own time. This way I can get over him fully.
2006-09-17 08:51:21 · update #1
He has no intention of ever returning the bracelet... he's just using it as a power thing to guilt you into getting back with him. Don't let him do that!
You said it wasn't that expensive, just replace it yourself, or explain to your mom that it was special since it was a gift from her, and ask if perhaps she'll replace it as a gift at Christmas time.
You're wise to want to change your number, especially knowing how weak and vulnerable you become around him.
2006-09-17 09:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not giving you your bracelet back because he doesnt see the importance of it. Let him know why you want that bracelt back and tell him it's not an excuse to talk to him.
2006-09-17 15:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should report it stolen since it's obvious that he won't give it back. Then he can be charged with possession of stolen goods. : )
2006-09-17 15:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋