all i want is love, whi can not seem to find it. players and liears is all is see. so should i seek for love or wait
2006-09-17 08:39:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to learn from you past mistakes - you should know the signals that a guy is a loser. Look for those signs, and don't hesitate to kick a guy to the curb if he seems crappy. Don't choose men based on how you feel emotionally about them. You have to choose them based on your heart, AND your head. If BOTH aren't telling you to go forward in the relationship, get out, or you'll be sorry later.
2006-09-17 08:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same here, I got dumped cold year and a half ago. I am 20 years old and that was the first time I experienced "LOVE" I had past girlfriends of course but those were little crushes and little likes. Any way I'v been heart broken since. I cry like a little baby and I'm 20 AND its been a year and a half. Sorry, anyway this is my theory: Wait and love with come to you because if you seek a lot of guys want to just get laid and they don't care who, so if you show interest they might think hm I got an easily lay since she is interested. If you show NO interest whatsoever and a guy comes to YOU perhaps there is a possiblity for LOVE, BUT, BUT take it real slow don't let him have ANYTHING, maybe tease hold his hand take is VERY SLOW EXTREMELY SLOW, DONT kiss him for a long time, ONLY then you will find out if he really likes u or not *unless he really want to get some and willing to be patient* but most arent patient. That's my theory. Good Luck!
2006-09-17 08:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Dispirited 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try doing something in between? Put the love question on hold and invest in yourself for awhile. Develop some hobbies or interests and go join some groups that do those things.
Your chances of getting into a healthy love relationship are A LOT better if you're a happy person who doesn't "need" to be in a relationship and you feel good about yourself. Users, players, and cheats can smell desperation a mile away. Plus if you're hanging out in places where those kinds of folks go, that's who you're going to meet.
If you get involved in some new groups, you'll meet new people and make new friends. When the time is right, one of them might even turn out to be a new love interest - or introduce you to someone who will be.
Best of luck!
2006-09-17 08:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by IrritableMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can totally relate to that. I dated a lot of bad guys who did nothing but treat me like crap and never spend any quality time with me. Well, I looked and looked. I couldn't figure why this love thing wasn't working out for me. I stopped looking since I had given up hope. I just figured that I would be alone for the rest of my life and end up that "crazy cat lady" who has at least dozen cats. Then one day, love just fell into my lap. I have never been happier. My suggestion is to just sit back and wait. It will be difficult but once love finds you, the wait will have been more than worth it. Like the saying goes, "Love is like a butterfly, when pursued it is always out of reach but when you stop and wait patiently, it may light upon you."
2006-09-17 08:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsey T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found to look for love is the wrong thing. Let love find you as my mother always said. The one you fall in love with is never in love with you. That's why all you get is liers and players, they tell you what you want to hear and you fall for it. The game is played a little different nowdays. Love yourself and the love you seek will find you. If you show how much you love yourself, I guarantee men will be following you like crazy, telling you how much you thrill them, and falling at your footsteps to do any and everything to get your love. Stay sweet and good luck.
Silver Birch
2006-09-17 09:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Players and liars are not good substitutes for love, lovers, they are always worth the wait, love is hard to find but never satisfied with a liar or a cheater, WAIT!
2006-09-17 13:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since all of the other answers are cliches, I'll add on more. You must first learn to love yourself. Seeking love,and acceptance from someone else would end up being a fruitless journey.
2006-09-17 08:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jimmythekid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is the most compleated thing to find its not in front of u
but its not behind u either watch for the little things get dressed up go out with friends have a party just be yourself dont give up on love and stop only thinking about it u do something crazy
2006-09-17 08:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know how old you are and you should never ask a lady her age so i guess i'll never know... but...all i can say is just enjoy life. you cant look so hard alllll the time and just want love.. i mean, i want love too but i wanna enjoy my life and see the sights ya know? love will come to us girls one day... but untill then, just enjoy your life and make the most of it. dont stress if you cant find a man right away, he's out there...you just gotta be patient and love will come to you soon enough ...good luck chicka
2006-09-17 08:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Juno. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can seek and waite at the same time we are here just waiting under the seashell of life to be found like u dont worry Do u belive? then it will happen
2006-09-17 09:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋