I hate tasting her cigarette breath but I was caught in that excitment of first date thing. I even told her that we would go out on a second date but now I just can't stand the thought of kissing that ashtray taste in her mouth again. So I need to break it off with her What should I do? Should I not call her at all?
2006-09-17 08:27:43 · 15 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her tic tac or gum and patch
2006-09-17 08:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dimension 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I once dated a guy who smoked. So I know what you mean about the ashtray tasting kisses/breath. I think that it would be a good idea to talk with her about it. Tell her that you like her and you like kissing her but the only thing that is keeping you from really enjoying it is her smoky tasting kisses. Make sure that you are disapproving of the behavior not the woman... otherwise, she will feel attacked, she'll become defensive and my guess is that you don't want to do that. Just be sure to be gentle. This can be a touchy topic as I have learned. And if she is unwilling to compromise with you then perhaps it is time to consider dating someone else.
2006-09-17 08:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't not call her or go out with her. Just let her know that kissing her is like kissing an ashtray. If she likes you that much she will make sure to bring gum or mints next time. If she just ignores it then you know you need to move onto someone else. If you hate her smoking now it will get even worse in the future. Good Luck!! :)
2006-09-17 08:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a Sex and the City problem. Maybe you should ask her to not smoke on the days she is going to meet up with you. But also you have to think long term. If you might really want a relationship with that person you also have to be fully aware that their smoking is going to be an issue in the relationship.
2006-09-17 08:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a hard time dating a smoker myself. I think you need to weigh the positive with the negative, and don't just date her to avoid hurting her feelings. If you do, you'll be leading her on and may hurt her worse in the long run. Just be honest and tell her how you feel.
2006-09-17 08:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kissing on the first date might want to be thoroughly as a lot because the girl. persist which includes her lead. If she needs a kiss, provide her a kiss! If not, i might want to attend a date or 2. One might want to under no circumstances anticipate something like this. it fairly is the quick thanks to not getting that second date!
2016-11-27 20:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by mccunn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her that you dislike her cigarette breath. You have to tell her if you want to continue seeing her. If she cares about you, she will change her ways for you...If she won't, then all you can do is leave and find someone who is a non-smoker.
2006-09-17 08:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about it.if shes smoking now, she probably has been for a while, so it would be hard for her to stop.smoking is bad maybe not to her because she smoke.if its not what you like let her know,tell her how you feel and if you don't get the answer you want maybe u need to move on.
2006-09-17 08:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her that the smoking is the only thing that is turning you off. Maybe she will quit.
2006-09-17 08:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just tell her how you feel about smoking, and then if she doesn't say or do anything about it then you can say well I really can't date smokers so i'm sorry but thanks for everything. something along those lines.....she still deserves to know why.
2006-09-17 08:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her nicely, so you don't hurt her feelings. You like her, but not the smoking. It's not fair to ask her to quit, but you could ask her not to smoke around you.
2006-09-17 08:30:50 · answer #11 · answered by ballybabt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋