to meet other single men> over 35 , that are decent hard working kind and genuine like me, im not liking the idea ov pubs clubs. ind internet scares me. i live in the northeast.
2006-09-17 07:44:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 38. and no im not a minger, im quite atractive., i have a nice personality. so my friends say , they also say i look like im already taken . i dont go out much, apart from the gym.
2006-09-17 07:54:09 · update #1
I am 39 years old. And other places to go to meet the opposite sex .. other then the pub or bars, or wild parties, would be Bookstores, where they serve beverages, grocery stores, library, church. Just a few places that I thought of for ya. You never know.. you just might find that special someone while looking through the produce at the grocery store.. or reading an interesting novel and someone comes up to you with a coffee/tea and a bright smile,just wanting the same thing you want.. YOU NEVER KNOW.. anyway.. GOOD LUCK in your HUNT for Mr.Right.. cause in this case.. you can't go wrong.. and you have nothing to lose. Keep us posted.
2006-09-17 07:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Internet is fine, as long as you are sensible. I am single and have been for a while, it is hard to meet new people. I have been a member on Dating direct and I have been on quite a few dates and have met some lovely people, but unfortunately, they wasn't for me, don't let that put you off though, a lady who I work with has been seeing someone for nearly a year, she is soooo happy with her new found love. You have nothing to loose, just tell someone where you are going, meet in a busy bar and you will be fine. Good luck and don't give up.
2006-09-17 08:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Leacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost anywhere. There are some men around like you describe, although some women's experiences might make them doubt it.
The Library might be a try.
The problem, really, is not so much where. It's how you make contact. 'Nice guys' are generally not pick-up artists, so you might have to make the first move.
A smile is usually a good starter and have a question ready.
Good luck and don't give up, there is someone and he's also wondering how he can meet you.
2006-09-17 07:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Barks-at-Parrots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can meet them in Parks or Hill Sites
2006-09-17 07:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by crsreenu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking - just go out and do things you enjoy, and you'll meet someone you already know you have something in common with.
2006-09-17 09:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by valiumgodmother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm.. you could go to a uni-sex gym, join a karate club, go swimming, join a book club - anything that interests u that gets u out and about to meets people.
2006-09-17 07:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anywhere and everywhere where you can meet them face to face. I say shopping malls, grocery stores and near men's bathrooms.
2006-09-17 07:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by The Truth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok by saying girl your making yourself sound like a twelve year old but anyway try taking as stroll to the nearest bingo hall
2006-09-17 07:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by xxDiStUrBeDxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parks.
2006-09-17 07:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try online dating. yahoo personals. don't know why you're scared. it's safer than meeting people in a pub! you don't give your personal email to anyone
2006-09-17 07:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋