He passed away in february of this last year, $ months before that we lost our home in Lousiana during RITA, feels like We have so many problems, and don't know which way to turn...My back has been driving me crazy in the lower part of my Spine, Dr.'s here very different then Lousiana and Don't know who to talk to about what, feeling very disscouraged.
2006-09-17 07:43:26 · 10 answers · asked by harmonieclark 4 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Pain & Pain Management
K, i would really do your research on what sort of doctor is best for you - nothing like bad back pain to make an unhappy situation totally miserable. Look on the net for advice on if your doctor is, y'know, 'reputable' and doesn't have the signs of a greedy scuzz bag.
Sorry for the death in the family.. I would say don't leave pictures of him so he's there every time you turn around in your house.. it isn't respectful to him or to you, and will only upset you more. Now you've moved it's time to start a new life.. i guess thats all i can say..
2006-09-17 07:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I am so very sorry to hear about your son. I can not begin to imagine the pain that you are in right now. I live in Louisiana too, not far from the coast, got a direct hit. The only thing that I can think to say is that sometimes in the grieving process, when we've exhausted trying everything we can do to ease the pain, the thing to do is .........nothing. Eventually there come a time when there truly is nothing that is going to make the pain stop, that moment when our grief is stripped down to its nerve and we are left with only our bleeding soul and the trust we put in God. It will never go away completely, you can only hope the God will continue to give you the strength to make it throught those moments when there is nothing else to do. This may sound really silly, but I urge you to close your eyes and picture yourself as a child again in the arms of Jesus.Picture that HE looks down at you with those beautiful, loving eyes and asks you what troubles your heart, and tell him. Say everything that comes to your mind,HE will not judge,HE understands grief..Tell Him how angry you are and how unfair it is and how much you hurt, tell Him everything. Cry and scream if you need to. Then, when you are finished, picture that He puts His hand on your heart and that He says,"Bring your suffering always to Me and I will carry the burden with you, You will not suffer alone.Place your grief into My Sacred Heart .'' Then imagine that you place your grief into His sacred heart and then lay your head upon It. Picture Jesus holding you. Take a deep breath. I hope that will bring you a small amount of peace in an unbearable moment.I will pray for you and for the soul of your dear son.
2006-09-17 08:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by sighkik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry :[
You'll always miss him, there's no doubt about that.
Sometimes time is the only cure to things.
No one will ever truly understand your exact situation. You are the only one that experienced him as a mother. It may help you to hear how he has affected other people, because after all, you created him. Get in touch with some of his old friends or some of your relatives who knew him too. They'd be willing to share some memories with you.
Get in touch with God. Ask him what he has in store for you.
2006-09-17 07:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by lindzy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you could try counseling its different that groups
its a one on one situation that will help you re center yourself.
I understand what you mean about different places and different doctors.
time is another thing you need
a higher power is also something else you need
friends is something else.
understand with in yourself is also another thing you need to see.
you have been through a lot in a short time. its really truly hard to go through the hard times you are going through. I will pray for you
2006-09-17 07:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Marg N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,God is calling you back to his arms. People and meds can only do so much but God can take your pain and help you understand why this is happening. I am sure you have probably struggled with your faith because of all the pain you have endured but believe me, it isn't God doing this. He would never hurt us.I too have also been having a hard time but rest assure God is helping me through it. Give God a chance.You were willing to try meds and group therapy so why not try God?
2006-09-17 07:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wish I would have an answer,but no. I only wanted to tell you that I would like to put my arm around you. Hope you start to feel better soon.
2006-09-17 07:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Pinar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. You have been given a burden which is almost unbearable. I can only tell you what I have done and always do. Turn to God, he will carry you.
2006-09-17 07:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by june clever 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have experienced trauma, and I'm deeply sorry for you. I suggest seeing a reiki massage/ healer. Treat your inner pain, and your body will follow suit.
2006-09-17 07:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very sad, i suggest u go to church turn u self to jesus if u haven't done so, pray he will guide u the rest of u family life.
2006-09-17 07:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please know that God has his reasons. My heart and prayers go to you!!!!
2006-09-17 07:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by amylr620 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋