I'm 14 almost going on 15 and I've had two boyfriends. My first was last year and we dated for about 8 months and now I like this guy name Tony and we're going out but my parents aren't supposed to know cuz they don't want me to have anymore boyfriends til i'm older. Anyway I think my mom knows about Tony and she pretty much called me a slut. I don't think I am cuz I'm careful about who I date and I haven't done anything really "bad" with my boyfriends. So am i?
2006-09-17 07:05:15 · 16 answers · asked by ALL SMILES :D 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not yet,but don't turn into one either...remember this...sex & love are not the same thing,a guy will tell you anything to get in your pants.
2006-09-17 07:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by aries4272 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother absolutely should not call you such a thing. Does she do something like that often? This is emotional abuse.
Your mother should be ashamed of herself!!!!!
Don't you believe it about yourself. Also I want you to show your mother this.......When a parent says such horrible things to and about their children it crushes self esteem and sometimes comes to be when it wouldn't have otherwise.
You are a beautiful person, who is going to have an amazing life. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
2006-09-17 14:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Willow S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't having a few boyfriends and experiences is all part of growing up, just enjoy yourself but be careful!
2006-09-17 14:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all, you're mum is wrong to call you that, maybe she's just protective of you and doesn't want you to lose your innocence. Don't worry you aren't a slut.
2006-09-17 14:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is a little young to be dating....you have a lot of years ahead of you..so don't get too caught up in the boyfriend game...concentrate on your school
2006-09-17 14:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah...same situation here...but i just decided to stay away from guys till I was older if it meant keep my mom happy and comfortable about the things i do.
2006-09-17 14:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 16 is a reasonable age to start dating. 15 is o.k. for group outings, movies, mall , etc..Your Mom is trying to keep you safe and raise you right.
2006-09-17 14:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not even 15 and have had what you call boyfriends...and you are asking if you are a hooch...if you have to ask then yes.
2006-09-17 14:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no youre not. i think thats pretty normal. i had a boyfriend when i was 14 and a dif one at 15 also.
2006-09-17 14:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by shaandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just about all moms are going to be concerned about these things, but she could be a little more understanding and decent about it.
2006-09-17 14:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋