Im 22 and he's 52. He does alot for me finacially and i kinda need him at the moment. We had a fight and i left for a couple days i came back to the house and found a condom wrap on the floor by the bed. what should i do??
2006-09-17 06:44:54 · 24 answers · asked by sexysummer34 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's too old for you. An age gap that large can only mean that you are looking for a father figure and someone to take care of you. I know this from experience! I married the older man and regretted it, just as you probably will. Thank goodness for divorce.
As for the condom...well, he got some while you were gone. Another strike against your relationship.
2006-09-17 06:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should leave him now because he is with someone else and you do not need a guy who does this because you left for a couple days and you had a fight he should have not done this to you but first ask him and see what he says and if you do not like what you her leave him but I would leave him because i would be afraid that he has been doing this the whole time I mean no disrespect to your boyfriend and I know this bothers you but i would not want you to be hurt.And this has nothing to do with your ages because my best friend from high school was with a guy who she loved and she thought he loved her but was messing around on her the whole time they were together for 4 years and the she was 19 and he was 53 so age is just a number but regardless if he is cheating leave him. So Good Luck you are strong you can make it on your own it will be just fine God Bless.
2006-09-17 14:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by kutiepye28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he's only using you. And you should thank God that you are in the position that you are in. To be honest I would appoligize, act like everything was okay...don't mention the condom wrapper, take him to Vages, marry him and take 1/2 of his ****. I don't know if you are in that great of a position, if you're not.... let him put out money on you. Think of a reason why you need your own apartment, see if he'll buy....I would use him too. Then, leave! If you really love him break down and tell him sorry, tell him you can't imagine your life without him:)
2006-09-17 13:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. You'll have more respect for yourself. You'll have plenty of time to play with the 52 year olds. Now, you should be having fun with guys that are in their 20s and 30s. Believe me, you will be better off. If you do not leave now, then you will have a harder time leaving him down the road. Just leave him now and get it over with. The money isn't that important. Go to college and make your own money. Just get out of there!!
2006-09-17 13:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by AmsterF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, being in a relationship because you "need" to be is a bad, bad, bad thing. You should be in a relationship with someone because you WANT and CHOOSE to be.
What exactly is it that you need. Financial help? Attention? Sex?
You are obviously with him for the wrong reasons. You not only short change him in all of this but more importantly you short change YOURSELF (the most important person to you).
You can't be happy hanging on to someone for the sake of need vs. wanting and desire to be with them. You are just 22 years old and you deserve happiness not misery. Why make yourself miserable.
2006-09-17 13:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Willow S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should deffinalty leave AGAIN because if he had sex with sum1 else hez not being real with him. i mean come on your 22 your young you can deffinaly find some1 else. you can do sooooooooo much better than a 52 years old cheating asshole.
2006-09-17 15:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by {.:*jugurl*:.} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you should do, money is not everything it comes and goes. You need to do what's best for you, I know you don't like to share you man with anyone else. Sure enough he does not respect you. He has others that he sees and you are just one of them. Get out.....
2006-09-17 14:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by mezican2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him !!! he is 52 and you are 22 !!! think about it !!!
2006-09-17 13:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're using him, so I guess it's only fair he uses you too. If you don't want to be treated that way, move on and support yourself, rather than having a sugar daddy.
2006-09-17 13:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should feel lucky to have someone so much younger than himself.
Stay till you're financially able to live on your own.
But, I sure would ask about the condom wrapper.
2006-09-17 13:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Cassandra 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋