well,iknow im not a kid,but none of my family members remembered my day,i broke up with my guy yesterday and i have the flu..well what am i supposed to do tomorrow? any suggestions??
2006-09-17 06:37:43 · 25 answers · asked by marie - 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just pretend it is another day. If you have high expectations for your birthday then you can only be let down. If you no expectations then maybe you'll get surprised. Either way, it really is just another day.
2006-09-17 06:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, what a lot of unpleasant things to happen in so short a time. Sorry to hear that. Since you have the flu, you may have to resign yourself to a day in bed, but make it a fun day, get some good movies in to watch and use the phone to catch up with friends. And give yourself a birthday make up day for when you are better, promise yourself you'll eat gooey things and maybe some pampering of some kind, a manicure or something. When you are stronger, confront your family and TELL them that they hurt your feelings by forgetting your birthday and above all, whatever you do, don't dwell on your breakup, after all, what kind of a guy breaks up with a girl when she's sick and that close to her birthday! I know it doesn't seem that way now, but in the long run you are better off without him!
2006-09-17 13:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too sick to go out then have a nice simple supper ordered in and take a warm shower with nice soap, the kind you get as a gift and never opened. Get into a bed with clean sheets and a good book and be grateful you have what you have.
Next year drop hints that your family can't ignore. You won't have the flu, and you will have another guy, maybe that one will be the one, cause this one certainly wasn't. Oh and Happy Birthday!
2006-09-17 13:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by UselessOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you totally and completely sure that your family has forgotten your bday?!? IF I were you I would remind them! Also maybe they didn't forget perhaps they have something planned and are just keeping it a secret?!? Well, I would work on getting better then I would hint to your mom and dad at what you would like to have for your birthday. Maybe call a younger brother or sister or maybe even a grandparent and remind them so that they can remind the rest of the family! That's what I would do LOL. I am 37 years old!!!!!
2006-09-17 13:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by herbie36f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well happy early birthday. It sounds like you already pretty down, i would suggest you rent your favorite movies get some popcorn, and invite some friends over. Nothing beats a movie girls night. Don't let the things that have happened such as the flu and breaking up with your boyfriend get you down:) HAVE A KICK A** BIRThDAY!!!
2006-09-17 13:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by dollerstorelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take against the family members if they forgot your birthday ,sometimes it happens.At least on your birthday have good positive vibes for every one including your ex guy, maybe you can reconcile with him what better than your birthday.I guess you got flu because of tension of breakup.you should ring up all your friends and wish them well.
2006-09-17 13:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by sweet smell -removes bad oder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spa Day!
Find a really good spa, bring a friend and just relax and talk and afterwords go to a nice restaurant eat then bring home a really funny movie and watch!
happy birthday!! hope everything gets better!
2006-09-17 13:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Rx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a cupcake, put one candle on top, close all the shades, bundle up in bed, sing yourself a happy birthday...then tell the world to piss off...then go to bed. OR do what I do...PARTY. Who cares if your family forgets, or you just broke up wiht your guy...go out and have fun.
and Happy Birthday!
2006-09-17 13:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Clock Watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, get well, and enjoy your beautiful life. I left home at 19 and my family only had one birthday party for me, in all that time. No big deal.
2006-09-17 13:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in bed with a good movie, a bottle of scotch(for the flu) big box of chocs and a box of tissues
happy birthday
2006-09-17 13:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by mannit m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋