I want to, he wants to. Been seeing each other for 6wks.
2006-09-17 06:12:50 · 10 answers · asked by PICKLES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont act like you are afraid of being dumped, just enjoy the time you spend together... if you mention it he is going to think that there is a reason why you are saying it and he will.
2006-09-17 06:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After six weeks you sure you want to do this and is it because you are afraid he'll dump you.
Could you do yourself a favour and ask yourself : After 6 weeks do you feel as if you are in love and are you really in love.
If it's yes to the first......remember you own your feelings and you are the boss of your feeling hence you can heed caution before getting physical with this guy.
If it's yes to the second question ..... ask yourself ... can you see your self spending the rest of your life with him and him wanting he same thing.
Don't your want to explore the possibility..... of whether you share the same interest, like and dislikes, vision and goals for the future
before you actually jump into being physical.
Unless you have and you're dead sure......and from your perception getting physical seems to be the next step .......then do what you are comfortable with and also I might add live with.
The chances of him dumping you is mostly yes ....... pls remind yourself that you took this very lightly when you end up in a merry- go - round of pain.... hurt..... and confusion.
2006-09-17 06:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think he will dump you? Love is something two people learn between each other! If he gets his bit and then dumps you he is not worth thinking about...you have to build on things in life and the physical side of love is one of those things. You have to learn between the pair of you what is good and what isn't!
2006-09-17 06:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what this guy really wants. and if you are truly ready. You say that you both are, but in my philosophy only do it if you are truly in love, not just to do it. It doesnt matter how long you have been dating. It depends on whether you want to have a future with this person or not.
2006-09-17 06:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by s..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both want to, then its likely to happen, you wont really know until after who have made love whether it was just a physical love relationship or just a lust relationship. Then you will know your answer, and thats life I am afraid.
2006-09-17 06:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by William T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to then i see no reason for him to dump u for making 'physical' love as u put it, unless he's only after sex then thats another thing
2006-09-17 06:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have to look carefully at this man... dun be too rush... if he is looking forward to be with u.. for long time.. den go ahead.. but most propably guy( bad guy ) dump u after they sick of u.. so dun let them easily get u to bed.. they will look down at u.. trust me..
2006-09-17 06:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by wination 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't say for sure but it's likely, then you become used goods. Save youself for your husband.
2006-09-17 06:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DO U THINK HE'LL DUMP U?
2006-09-17 06:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO i dont think he will.......
2006-09-17 06:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋