2006-09-17 05:43:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
What kinda of question is that? Do you love you wife? Do you want a family? If you can answer yes to BOTH of those questions than yes you should have a child. But if you have doubt and have to ask a question like that than maybe should rethink things all together.
2006-09-17 05:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by AB11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm bossy but it's not a control thing. It's just me. I got to have the last word but not necessarily be right. I got a kid and my hubby is very happy. He knows i will give in for the sake of everyone of us. My pride is not to big for me. If her pride matches her ego then i can't see what the problem would be. If that pride is bigger then the ego then i sort of feel sorry for you and the kid that is yet to be. Good luck.
2006-09-17 16:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Part Time Cynic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One person's "bossy" is another person's "strong and assertive." By choosing to characterize your wife as "bossy", it seems to me that you're revealing some possible fractures in your relationship. Maybe you should address these before jumping into parenthood - kids are not the solution to relationship problems.
2006-09-17 13:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by breakwinder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she told you to?
Seriously - if she's bossy, she's probably a control freak - which doesn't necessarily mean she'll be a bad mother...
but she will be a nightmare ex-wife
If you think there's a chance that you two are going to break up though - run, run likr the wind before it's too late
2006-09-17 12:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by trebs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all women are bossy lol, no, seriously only you know if your relationship is strong enough to bring up a child.Dont have a child if you think it will bring you closer together as it won't be fair on anyone.
Are you both ready for a child? if so then go for it...once your wife has a baby to look after, she will be too tired to boss you around lol
2006-09-17 12:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is bossy to the point of fighting and not wanting to be around her .. then having a child would just add to the mess!
Please think twice about it if you are unsure .. once you have them, you can't send them back to where they came from! :-)
Good Luck to you both.
2006-09-17 12:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if you are sleeping with her/using protection????
seeing that she is the one that physically does pregnancy......not something you can really control.
if you're here asking a question like that, maybe you need to take a good long look at your marriage, and see what can be done to work things out.
guaranteed, having a child will not fix things, it will only add more stress. if your marriage is on shaky ground, having a child is the worst thing you can do, both for your marriage AND the child.
2006-09-17 12:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by NeverReady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then go for it. I am bossy also but not in a rude or weird way. I am a good woman. Maybe she will turn out like supernanny and then your in trouble. LOL good luck to you.
2006-09-17 12:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by plaster_employment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? we can all be bossy mate! it depends whether you WANT kids, if you could SUPPORT your wife and child when they NEED it!
but remember what EVER happens, this child will be in your life forever and so will the mother!
2006-09-20 15:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Cass xoxox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, then yes. If her bossiness disturbs you then she either needs to change or you should be with other people.
2006-09-17 12:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by blood_hooks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋