i am married with 2 kids but when i see anther woman i just fell all good and warm inside but at the same time i love my husbend please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-17 05:15:39 · 18 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you might be bisexual. Hvae you ever imagined performing oral on a woman? if you have, then you'r probably bi , but not totally gay since you like men too.
I'm not sure what to do about it, since I'm a straight male, but don't worry about your feelings.
2006-09-17 05:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're allowed (IMhO) to get gooey at the sight of another woman. I think that the saddest thing that society has imposed on us are these rigid rules on sexual gratification. They're all BS.
You could touch on the subject with hubby. He might just be content kneeling at the side of the bed watching you and your new gf get it on for him. Or he might enjoy serving you too drinks and breakfast in bed, followed by foot massages and pedicures. You just don't know until you break out of these absurd rules.
But if you do talk to your husband, do take it slow. Start by pointing out women YOU think are attractive, and see what he says. use words like "cute" or focus on the way she's dressed, rather than say "Ooh boy, I'd love to get a piece of that" I'm sure you'll figure it out.
2006-09-17 05:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is just a phase you are going through. You marriage might be at a holt right now. Spice up your love life with your husband and maybe you won't get turned on by another women. But if you really are gay, you should tell your husband, because you are living a lie. And if you were gay, you wouldn't be happy with him anymore. Your kids will eventually forgive you.
2006-09-17 05:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be bisexual. I get the same way sometimes too. But I acted on it just to see if I had those feelings as well and it turns out I still like men probably even more now. I just had to experience it so I wouldn't be walking around being confused. But I don't like women anymore so I guess that kind of cured me.
2006-09-17 05:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Southern Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing unusual about being attracted to other people, even when you're married. Nor is there anything wrong or unusual about finding other women attractive. What would be wrong is infidelity to your husband. Nothing wrong with admiring a beautiful woman, though. It doesn't mean you're gay, necessarily. It does seem to indicate that you're not as straight as perhaps you thought you were.
2006-09-17 05:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you are bi-curiuos - and don't worry its not going to kill you. May be you could explore this side of your sexuality by talking it through with your husband, most guys have a bit of a thing about watching two girls together, you could explore this as a fantasy together, get some appropriate porn and the like. Embrace it, don't fear it.
2006-09-17 05:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by stepfordswiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety,u must be at least Bi-Curious. Depending on if u want to act on this, you should talk to ur husband. Remember that this could open up doors to new things for u as well as ur husband, if u want him involved. Just be careful not to replace what u already have w/ ur hubby for ur new experiences. Not unless, that's where ur heart ends up.
2006-09-17 05:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if *anything* you would be bi-sexual since you still love your husband.
But I wouldn't allow myself to attach any sort of titles to what you are. Just pray about it and ask God to help you deal with it. To me, it's just temptation. Read your Bible every night to help raise your defenses. If you've got the scripture in your heart, you can fight temptation. Just pray for strength (do it in your heart, not outloud because you don't want the devil listening to what you say. He will use it against you!) God will help you deal with it! It will be hard, yes, but you will get through it!
2006-09-17 05:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just love that person. I feel all warm inside when i play with my kids.You will find out quickly wheather or not you are if you enter into relations with them you will know wheather or not you like it.
2006-09-17 05:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by carolinatinpan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just like your pu--y to be sucked alot so your inner soul longs for a women because that's what they so. You can try it or just let your husband suck you more or let him know and plan a three-some. that might work BUT I don't think you are Gay
2006-09-17 05:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jamaican Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋