... to keep my feelings to myself and just walked away without telling him how much I like him?
2006-09-17 04:38:44 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, we need a little more information than that. Was there a reason for just walking away? Did you just meet this guy? What?
2006-09-17 04:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by yourqueenofall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't give a lot of info to work with here, so I'll try to cover as many possibilities as possible.
Telling someone is not always the right thing to do. For instance if he is married/in a committed relationship silence may just be golden and best for all involved. If he is a decent man that wouldn't cheat on his wife/committed relationship, telling him may just add some unneccessary strain. I've had feelings in the past for a married man (it was just attraction) and didn't say a word. It was the best thing I could have done and he and I remained best of friends.
If he isn't married/in a committed relationship and you think you may have something beautiful with him, GO TELL HIM!!! If you don't you will just be plagued by...."what if..." the rest of your life. Even if it doesn't work out as you'd like, in your mind you at least made an attempt and won't be living..."what if I had only told him." Some men can be very thick and need to be told, otherwise they just remain clueless.
If it is only attraction and let's face it he isn't all that great of a guy and will only be a total jerk. Don't tell him (this is just a case of being attracted to what isn't good for you--we all do that at a time or another) just let the attraction pass and have fun with fantasy for a while. (Fantasy is much better than a guy that is a total creep/jerk. Sometime wanting is so much better than having. That may not sound logical, but all too often it is so true.)
2006-09-17 04:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Willow S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just meet this guy?Is he inlove with you also? If he doesn't a girlfriend, u think u have a chance, and if he shows signs that he likes u, then yes u should, take a risk, u could end up with a great guy,
Why did you not tell him, I think it is only fair that you let not your heart be troubled let it be free and tell him but only you know the situation because you did not say on base you guys are on. Is he married, then why are you afraid. go for it but it is base on the grounds I mention first
2006-09-17 04:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends.....
1.does he have girlfriend?
2. do u think u have chance with him?
3. does he show signs that he likes u?
if he doesn't a girlfriend, u think u have a chance, and if he shows signs that he likes u, then yes u should, take a risk, u could end up with a great guy, but becareful and listen 2 ur friends at all times. love is 4 little bit but frindship is 4-ever.
2006-09-17 04:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good heavens......need a little more info than this. What are you talking about, a strong loving relationship or someone you happen to just start dating or even someone you might want to date......how can anyone answer this kind of question realistically. You probably know the answer to your own question better than anyone else, try looking inside of yourself and you will find all the answers you'll ever need.
2006-09-17 04:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by lady_rider_hd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready to tell him , then dont. Try to be really good friends and then tell him.Maybe he will let you in on , if he has a girlfriend, if he just likes you as a friend or if he prefers older girls or younger ones! So you werent wrong....But you should tell him when your ready to admit it, and the worst thing you can do is get your friends to tell him.
2006-09-17 04:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by TaylorFuhrer; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just did this to a guy. For two weeks it bothered me, I was hoping I could just get over it. But I didnt. So I left an email, and spilled my guts. If I dint hear back then I was going to let it go. But to my surprise, he wrote back and said he felt the same and missed me too. Now we're talking!
2006-09-17 04:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you wanted to have happen... if you didn't want to or could not keep seeing him then why hurt him and sorry for you but if you just walked away because he was s jerk then its a different story
2006-09-17 04:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u were i mean if you realy liek aperson let know just how you feel about them its up to them whether or not they like you you should alwaystellaperson howmuch youlike them cuzit could be you last chance to even say hi i got this one car site i go to all the time got some realy interseting stories on there http://www.dobhran.com/greetings/GRinspire122.htm copy and paste that link good story
2006-09-17 04:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by Maverick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it was right at the moment to walk away but since you really do want him to know how much you like him..... tell him
2006-09-17 04:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋