I know they are whats in fashion now but if she does this and I didnt know about it( she never added them to her normal laundry pile and would wash them when no one was home), what else might she be doing that I dont know about. ARe thongs a sign that your teen is sexually active and wants to show off her butt to boys.?
2006-09-17 04:38:18 · 28 answers · asked by h nitrogen 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As I said the issue isnt that she is wearing them but she was hiding the fact that she wore them
2006-09-17 04:48:47 · update #1
Well, sometimes women wear thongs because the type of pants and or skirts they wear so we won't have a "panty line" as we call it. Doesn't neccessarily mean she is sexually active, but it could. Just sit down and talk to her about it. Just don't make it a big deal because she won't talk to you.
2006-09-17 04:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by yourqueenofall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thongs are currently the fashion. You would be surprised at how many young girls wear them, and swear by their comfort.
This doesn't mean that your daughter is giving it up to every boy that comes along, nor is she pole-dancing in a strip club somewhere.
She likely keeps her undergarments out of view, out of fear that you will overreact, and think poorly of her. Chances are good that all of her friends are wearing them too.
Going near-commando gives teens the opportunity to feel like they are being rebellious and wild. As long as they are under her clothes, does it really matter?
2006-09-17 04:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by oscarschic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how well do u know ur daughter? A girl can wear thongs cuz it's fashion, teenagers are different now..they can be sexy but doesn't mean they are active on sex, u know. They are shy to see it with d family because u may think its not appropriate but since they like trying new things as part of teenagers, they just can't stop wearin like that.On my experience though, I had the confidence to wear thongs when I lose my virginity but when I was a virgin, I was shy trying sexy stuff.I guess your daughter is just confident on her body, that's all.
2006-09-17 04:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not let my daughter at a young age wear thongs. they cause irritation and infections. Think about it as having toilet paper stuck up your butt all day. Ask your Dr. and they will tell you all of the negative things that can go wrong.
It is a fad. there are plenty of lingerie stores were you could purchase nice under ware and not have it ride up. Pantie lines- if she is that young what the hell do you care. i wouldn't.
2006-09-18 00:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by always 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take it from me (im pretty young to but im not giving my age ) im a teenager. i started out the same way, except i was too embarrased to even go to the store to buy thongs so id order them online w/ like a shirt then when it came in the mail my parents would js give me the box b/c i told them it was my shirt and id show it to them when i opened it up. so ya it take out my thongs then show them my shirt. thats how i got them hehehe ANYWAYZ!!!!!!!!! she probably hid it from you b/c she doesnt want you to make a big deal out of it. and plus its kinda of weird to have ur parents know that one day you could be wearing regular panties and the next you could not. next, dont freak out and think shes sexually active js b/c she wears thongs. i wear them b/c they are a nessesity. like when i wear white pants, a thin skirt, or like my gauchos. wouldnt u rather know that her butt isnt totally covered but know that guys cant see her panty lines??? its nothing to worry about shes not sexually active js b/c she wears thongs. also dont confront her about it all serious and everything, thatll js make her self concious. and keep lettin her wash her own panties/thongs, its js for the greater good.
2006-09-17 05:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by pearlandcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i really don't think that wearing thongs is a sign that one is sexually active & wants to show off butts to boys..it could be that your daughter just finds it more comfortable than wearing the normal undies! it could also be that she's keeping it as a secret since wearing thongs could make one think that one who's wearing it is sexually active or so. i guess you just hafta talk to her & let her feel that it's ok to wear it & not hide it from you. let her feel that it's ok to share things to you..Ã
2006-09-17 04:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt worry too much. its just underwear, by no means a thong is a sign of a sex life, talk to her and ask her why she wears them, dont judge her or tell her to stop, let her know you wont make a big deal, and that you understand she is growing, that way she will tell you the more important things
2006-09-19 10:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by cehilo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wearing a thong don't mean sex, it mean sexy. she may not feel comfortable talking to you. Go to her and tell her that you notice that she's wearing a more adult type underwear and that you were concerned about that. She may not open up to you so let her know it's ok to talk to you or someone. Make her feel comfortable to be able to talk to you about anything. open up to her on the things you did when you were young
2006-09-17 04:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by Lakenya P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up my daughter to be a prude, but I let her explore certain things that were not harmful, but let her feel that she was breaking loose. One of those things was not to fight the thong thing. Kids want to explore, let them do small things that make them feel like they are growing up. The thing is to pick your battles. The thong thing is minor. When you put your foot down on the larger things (like a poison concert) it will be easier if you had let them get by on the smaller harmless things
2006-09-17 04:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by nyker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thongs are not only for showing off. For some they are more comfortable. Also, the panty line doesn't show. Maybe she hid them to prevent being accused of something. Anyways, just talk to her about it
2006-09-17 05:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by twogris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋