i've had a couple of dates with this lady. i seem to be calling her all the time and putting in all the effort. i can't really tell if she's really interested because she hasn't taken the initiative to call me but she also doesn't seem NOT interested. what is a guy to make of this? do women expect to be chased all the time or this a sign that the lady is not interested? your oppinion would be appreciated.
2006-09-17 03:46:27 · 9 answers · asked by tom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want to get into her pants, which you do, you are gonna have to put in all the effort, you cant expect her to do so, cause if you dont there are plenty of guys who will, and she knows this.
2006-09-17 03:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tihnk you are putting too much of an effort into her. Fall back and let he call you if shes really interested. Dont be too into her. I dont think shes sure if she likes you or not. I say let her come to you now.u have done your part. And no we are not all like that. If i am interested in someone i will let them know. No need to play hard to get if you really like someone.
2006-09-17 10:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being assed around by guys so long, we give up. it's always that we give up on the ones that are really good for us. Ask her out to dinner or for a ride out in the town. Ask her if you done/said something wrong or to pull her away from you. Let her know your feelings after you get your answer, then you'll know what to do from there.Find out why she never call. Hey email me once you find out, and i'll let you know what's up from there. it sounds like you're a good person and you deserve someone that's good for you. Good Luck
2006-09-17 10:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lakenya P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women appreciate the man calling and making the effort.
Don't fret. You are reading way too much into this.
If you are enjoying her company and having a good time, why stress over who calls whom?
2006-09-17 10:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, if she doesn't call back, forget about her. She's not interested. She probably has like 10 guys calling her. She will only call back the one she likes.
Call her and leave a message, if she doesn't get back to you , its a wrap.
2006-09-17 10:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are interested, and that you would like to know where the relationship stands......thats the only way you are going to find out where its going......
2006-09-17 10:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she is really interested.
2006-09-17 10:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all are like that. Unfortunately you are stuck with one so deal with it or just ditch her
2006-09-17 10:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should move on. if this woman was intersted, she would be all over you!
2006-09-17 10:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by cynthia_armymom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋