i im kinda wondering what this sounds like to someone else she should i forget about her has anyone else been down this road and how did it turn out.my girl friend of 8 years moved in with her child hood sweathearts basement suit acouple months ago she stays with me a couple times a week. he dont know it though she doesnt want me to go to the house im not sure why.she says she loves him as a brother.she seems to do a lot of things for this guy not much for me other than sex and visiting. like she does his laundry cooks for him he works out of town for two wees and then is home for a week. she says their is nothing going on sexually between them.she says hes kissed her on the chee and vice versa i guess their has been some hugs . but no sex. she has known this ex boyfriend for 29 years and wouldnt want to do anything to ruin their friend ship although they went out and had sex previously to me.
2006-09-17 03:45:45 · 8 answers · asked by troubled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're being used.
Time to depart from this relationship...
2006-09-17 03:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had never heard of a sex buddy until a few years back when somebody said they'd be mine anytime I wanted one-lol
A sex buddy is sex with no commitment-ties other than sex.
I believe there can be platonic friendships after two people have been lovers. I am good friends with my ex husband but wouldn't go there again. He and I are good friends, we moved on and not see each other like that (well I don't him anyway).
I don't understand why you aren't allowed there if there is nothing to hide and maybe a surprise visit would do you good (see for yourself).
Sounds like she wants everything her own way, and sometimes we have to show we aren't a push over by taking things in our own hands to put things that troubles us to rest.
Like when my ex was away (visited a ill relation for a few days-I dreamed he'd been unfaithful with somebody else staying there too, and the element of surprise (turning up when didn't expect me to) showed me what I needed to see=body language between them-get what I am saying?
Don't let it trouble you, discover the truth, let it go and get on with it, or get out
Could be friends, but something doesn't quite sound right does it, I hope you have read your own question back a few times, answers start staring you in the face when you do ;)
Goodluck and God Bless xxx
2006-09-17 11:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me you are. If they are just freinds then why can't you go over to the house. Why doesn't she tell him. If you can not go over then how do you know where she sleeps. My guess it is not the basement. I am not trying to hurt you worse than this is already hurting but the truth is the truth. You need to move on . They have had sex. they are sleeping together. Just let it go and move on. Last thing you can ask yourself. Has she changed since she moved in with him?
2006-09-17 10:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she living with this guy in the first place ? Why isn't she living with you, or another girl ? .. It's time to wake up - smell coffee. You are just a sex buddy. She is using both of you. Move on to someone that is worth your time and love. Good Luck ! :)
2006-09-17 10:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you but she is more devoted to this guy than she is to you, not to mention living with him. I would be seriously concerned about this, don't pass it off as "she does not want to ruin the friendship." You need to find out the truth.
2006-09-17 10:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u a sex buddy
2006-09-17 10:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy it but start looking for another girl. keep quiet and you can have cake and eat it too.
2006-09-17 10:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by carolinatinpan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you realy have to decide, is if thats a problem for you!
2006-09-17 10:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋