I am cute, a perfect gentlemen, and I respect girls/women with all my heart!!
But, one thing, I lack..........I'm too darn shy!!
And because of my shyness, I stay quiet all the time when I am in some other place, rather than my home.
And I can only talk to girls, If I am spoken to.
1) What shall I do to come out of my shyness??
2) Do you think being a shy guy (i'm 15..^_^) is a sexy thing??
Thanks ppl!!>.^_^
2006-09-17 03:25:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To an extent, shyness can be a alluring to a girl because a lot of girls don't like loud, boastful "fly guys". However, shyness can get out of hand. I once went on a date with a guy that was SO painfully shy that I felt uncomfortable because I had to do all of the talking and it was as if he had no opinions of his own. Just remember: we're all just people; there's nothing to be afraid of, so try to open up, relax, and talk! A great way to feel like you're contributing to the conversation is by asking the girl questions about herself...girls LOVE to talk about themselves! Good luck to you, hon!
2006-09-17 03:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being shy is fine. You're still very young, so the dating scene is relatively new. The best way to come out of shyness or to make a first move is to look someone in the eye and smile at them. The more comfortable you get doing that, the easier it will be to make the next move.
2006-09-17 10:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is only with girls you are shy? If so, just treat them as if they are real people (lol). Look them in the eye and say Hello. Girls/women like to talk so they will pick up the ball and carry it once you speak that one word, then you will be spoken to and it is on!
2006-09-17 10:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Marty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,just be calm!You don't have to worry because you don't have a girlfriend yet.If your shyness is sexy?Yes,for some girls.I like romantic guys that give me flowers,that are opening the door for me and I really am impress if that guy is sending me love poems.Also I like the boys that are sly and a little bit macho.Because they are hot too!But not naughty!
2006-09-17 11:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to girls in school even if u don't know them(that will be even better)be confident don't be afraid to say something stupid or start asking like what's your favorite color?What do you like to do for fun?u know simple things then i'll be no problem.It's good 2 be shy but not extremly shy.
And i definetly think shy guys are sexy, is hard to find shy guys this days.
2006-09-17 10:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound really nice... i can't believe ur as shy as u say u are... but if u are thats okay! if i saw u in like the mall or out walking or something i will come and talk to u... (i'm a nice person.. i talk to alot of ppl and alot of ppl talk to me).... well if you wanna talk u can email me if u want okay.!
2006-09-17 14:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by *411* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with Indiana_girl.. had the same experience before.. and he does nothing but just to reply my questions!
So, Ask! cute guy ;)
2006-09-17 10:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by melissita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy guys are adorable, but, not in that kind of way.
come out of your shell more.
not too much.
you seem perfect..ahgâ¥
2006-09-17 10:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by just another kid. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get laid, like ASAP!
2006-09-17 10:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋