i love the rain but my husband hates it i wonder why?

Question

i know my husbands parents died but i dont kow how but i think it has somthing to do with the rain i would ask him but i dont want to make things worse.

Answer 1

Because some people float in the rain and some people melt.

Answer 2

Ask him if what he dislikes is lightning. There is something nice about a summer rain without lightning. Perhaps you should ask him if rain came without lightning, would he like it then.

Share certain things with him about rain and what you think of that. For example, my ex-wife hated to drive in the rain at night because she said that everything was too bright and shiny. We found a commonplace there. You might find out then what the real reason he dislikes rain. Maybe he loves baseball, and rain always ends that....who knows.

Answer 3

I understand completely. When it is dark and gloomy outside and someone has been through a trauma, it just sucks the life out of you. My dad and grandmother died in the same week. I used to like the rain but it really depresses me. There are chemicals in the brain that make you feel that way.

Answer 4

Individual preferences vary and one should respect an others feelings especially in a family. Appropriate time people will confide why and what questions.
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Answer 5

just ask him what he hates about rain and do not mention his parents.

Answer 6

rain is depressing when you get alot,dark,cold wet days suck and some people like me don't alway's like that

Answer 7

opposites attract just like with magnets so they say........

Answer 8

he isnt romantic.