He was talking to me, and i ignored him,he asked something and i looked away.His friends laugh, he felt humillated,now i don't want to talk to him,because he might be mad(he's not aggresive) but i don't want to listen to his scolding or whatever complain.
2006-09-17 03:06:02 · 19 answers · asked by c c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you didn't mean to embarrass him but knowing guys and knowing teenagers, he'll get over it. Don't give in to his pouting, that'll teach him that he can get whatever he wants. For whatever reason you were mad at him and ignoring him, that's the past and you guys should move on. He'll come back. Would he have rather you yelled and screamed at him? I don't think so...
And for all those people who say you're stupid, immature and that he should dump you for this....they're in denial that we've all been in this situation before....don't listen to them. Ignoring your boyfriend because you were ticked, doesn't make you a bad girlfriend or a a bad person.
J
2006-09-17 03:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a possibility you will not be included again in this type of friend scenario. You have to pull out the works for him since you embarrassed the bleep out of him. Worst of all in front of his friends. That is a no no. If there is a next time make him look real good in front of his friends. Like bring him his drink or food. Massage his shoulders. Say little things in his ear to make the other guys jealous (key factor make sure he is in the mood or the right type to pull this trick). But right now forget the complaining and scolding you do need to apologize before he starts ignoring you. Take the bull by the horns. I'm rooting for you. One question did he ask anything that might have offended you to cause you to ignore him?
2006-09-17 03:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend has put himself on such a level that he "scolds" you like a child, you need to call him your father. Any other day your boyfriend won't make much a fret over your actions, he's just going through some dumb macho "the man is always in charge" proof of worth in front of his boys. Remind him that who really matters in the relationship is the two of you, not his boys. So if he don't wanna spend another night alone, he needs to ignore his guy pals and keep them OUT of your business, or he'll be left OUT of the door. Case closed.
2006-09-17 03:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Divo Saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..first of all this is just immature..not talking is the worst thing you can do in a relationship..but doing so in front of his friends will only irritate him. if your upset with him you should have puled him aside and let him know. not only is this embarrassing to him, but you look like a b***h now and his buddies are probably telling him to get rid of you. You better call him and talk things out, then appologize to his friends too for acting so ugly.
2006-09-17 03:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with this guy again?? You obvioulsy don't care about him, don't say that you do.....because when you care about someone you don't ignore that person, no matter what the circumstances are! I say set him free, and of course he would feel humilliated, how would you feel? That was very mean to ignore him, especially if you didn't have a valid reason for it!! I would say "grow up"
2006-09-17 03:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats an awfully rude thing to do....and immature too, what part of this was funny? do you feel good about treating others in such a way? I think you ought to apologize and grow up.....Or let him move on , doesnt sound like you care much about him anyway......
2006-09-17 03:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with the aid of ways advantageous long letter, besides if she rejected u i might in simple terms go away her on my own yet thats me u dont want her to get mad at u 4 something stupid good. ask her if shes happy with incredible out with u and if she says no or ignores u then walk away
2016-10-15 02:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you were angry with him, it was no reason for not answering him while in Public. Apparently, you are not yet mature enough to understand this. I base this answer on the fact that you refer to him as your boyfriend. That tells me that the anger is not serious enough to have destroyed your relationship.
2006-09-17 03:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sentinel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he goes out and finds himself a decent woman. What you did was indecent and now you don't want to hear his complaints. Good grief. Do him a favor and dump him if he doesn't leave you.
2006-09-17 03:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you are too bad to embarrased him at the first place.
Unless he has a kind forgiving heart.
say sorry gently to him first before starting a conversation.
A gentle reaction will sooth the pain away.
Good luck!
2006-09-17 03:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋