me and my ex were having lunch then went to movies BUT in a friendly way not romantic.My boyfriend found out, now he's mad at me(he's not aggressive) but he's very mad.I told him the truth.Can u give your sincere opinion ? i love my boyfriend !
2006-09-17 02:28:44 · 9 answers · asked by latin l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I fit was no big deal, you would have told him. What if he went out with his ex in secret? I hope he realizes what a worthless ho you are and dumps you.
2006-09-17 02:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok in the first place why did you even consider having lunch with your ex?? If you have a boyfriend why see your ex?? He's right to be mad!! It's like they say "where there was fire, ashes are still left".....How would you be if you saw him having lunch with his ex, admit it, you would be mad too, so put yourself in his shoes....I think you should try to talk to him, and you should stop seeing your ex, even if it's only to be his friend, that doesn't seem right....In the other hand if the guy loves you, he should trust you, that's very important in a relationship, "trust' and "honesty".......but I don't think he's mad because you were having lunch with him.....since you said that "he found out"....does that mean someone else told him?? If that's the case, that's probably one of the reasons he's mad, he probably wanted to hear it from you, not from someone else........Try talking to him, and if you really love him, promise him you won't see your ex again, and try to keep your promise!! Good Luck
2006-09-17 02:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do no longer mean to be rude yet you purchased with him very youthful and that i'm merely questioning what did you assume. You 2 should not be thinking approximately having a toddler from the sound of it you're desirous to have his toddler thinking it may keep him around. nicely honey it does not in fact having young little ones looks to push adult adult males away. you the two are youthful and function lots of time to have young little ones particularly in case you intend on staying collectively. you have one toddler stay life you and him holiday bypass to college. merely carry out a little issues collectively with your life earlier you decide on for to convey greater young little ones in the international. Take my suggestion and he won't experience cheated in a protracted time in life and arranged will assist you to 2 time to the two advance as persons and doubtless sooner or later you adult adult males gets married and function an entire homestead packed with young little ones. precise now could be no longer the time. Oh yeah in case you do no longer wait you may result no longer in trouble-free terms unmarried with a pair of youngsters yet having multiply fathers which will replace into frightening in case you have toddlers by using each guy you like/like on the 2nd. supply IT/YOU TIME!
2016-12-12 09:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, can you blame your boyfriend for feeling the way he does? Regardless of your intent, having lunch and going to the movies sounds an awful lot like a date.
2006-09-17 02:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by dr schmitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Err...hello how did you think he would react, by telling you that fine honey...obviously he's going to feel that you have betrayed him, and even though you told him, it's like you're a little late, you should have told him before hand...you're boyfriend has a right to be angry allow him that.
2006-09-17 02:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were to put yourself in his shoes, I believe you would be just as angry as he is. If I was you bf, I would most likely tell you to take a long walk on a short dock. In other words, you are toast - history - as in good-by - not see you later.
2006-09-17 02:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well how would u like it if ur boyfriend went to the movies with his ex? or ur enemy?? see it from his point of view. its not his fault hes mad he just loves u!!
2006-09-17 06:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by Amal-Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex bf can help you to explain to ur guy if he still doesnt believe
2006-09-17 06:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have told him BEFORE you did that. It looks like you were keeping secrets from him.
2006-09-17 02:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋