2006-09-17 02:06:40 · 29 answers · asked by bjmarchini 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Either that or a chastity belt.
2006-09-17 02:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend? 6th grade????? Did you approve of this? Ok, and at 6th grade what is the extent of their relationship, holding hands at school, walking to school together? Hmmm - this is a tricky question because every parent has different views on this. I don't have a daughter, i have a son but I have a niece. I would think that if she has a BF and you are still taking them to the movies, then it's harmless. Talk to your daughter ALOT about what is acceptable and what isn't and what YOU are comfortable with as a parent.
2006-09-17 02:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by ameliabedelia_03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think no shotgun is needed..But just the good ole birds and the bees talk..Make sure she understand the whole situation..Just be open and honest and let her know that you are there for her..I think children learn from example so just let her know how it is suppose to work..If your open with her maybe she will be open with you..My son has a little girlfriend and they have been calling themselves g/f and b/f now for 2 yrs and he is 10..And it is cute at this pt..Just make sure she know all the consequences of being in a relationship for when she is older and decides to be in a REAL one..Thoughs teenage ones can be very hard on a girl..Let her know everything a boy will tell her to be with her completing..The I love you ...and it won't hurt..Everybody does it..You know all the lines think back to J.H. AND H.S. Tough years for a girl...Hope this helps..
2006-09-17 02:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Love Song 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a different response to a question like this.
My advise is not to jump to conclusions. Your daughter is growing up, and it shouldnt be up to anyone else to state what age is appropriate. Kids need to grow. The best thing u can do is provide guidance and try to understand them. This should be the case whether youre liberal or conservative, republican or democrat etc.
Try to get to know the boy first. He may be an angel for all you know. Keep a watchful eye, but dont interfere directly.
2006-09-17 02:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mark T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better get used to it. Its not like shes going to drive off and meet him. Know where she is and who she spends the night with.. I told my daughters don't let me catch you in a lie. Then I will really watch you. At 11 it should be a passing crush. Take them to a movie with you or do something together with one of her friends. It was much painfull for me when I got the first phone call from a little boy wanting to speak to my daughter. Good Luck shes a good girl you can trust her. Its the boys I'm worred about.
2006-09-17 03:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by blank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but it's time to get her on birth control. I knew of many girls in my daughter's school who by grade 7 and 8 lost their virginity.
You might think I'm crazy and that this doesn't happen but it does.
It happens to those stupid girls with stupid parents. The ones who are spoiled rotten and get everthing they want and whose parents actually encourage them all to be show offs and popular girls.
It also happens to the least of them...the ones who are poor and have nothing and who think that by having sex that makes them important because nobody else has the guts to do it.
You should see the show offs in high school who are necking everywhere and stuck like glue to one another as if its the only thing that mattered.
I'm glad my kids know all about sex and that in fact it scares them (they know about stds and pregnancy etc) and none of them want that for thier future any time soon. They have big plans for their lives and education comes first.
My daughter always thought most boys were really stupid and she's right they are at that age.
My boys are very intelligent on the other hand, and know that girls will only cause them trouble. So they are happy to just be who they are and hang out with the ones who aren't trouble.
2006-09-17 02:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its ok ffor a 11 yr old to have a b/f hopefully at that age they arent thinking about sex but if she has had a period at that age i wouldnt let her out of my sight or go anywhere unsupervized. i never had any girls but i have 3 step daughters. usually at the age 14 is when i had to worry especially when they have a smart mouth and start lying all the time then that means they are up to something and the more rules you have the more they sneek around. after my 15 yr old snuck around and got pregnant i put my 16 yr old on the shot. i should of got smart and had them both on it..
2006-09-17 03:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is 11 what grade is she in? If she is in grade school and he is in Middle School, then no question about it no dating, but then again what time do they have together riding on the bus. Haha
If they are both in middle school, It depends on how the boy is, meet him and make your judgement. Most middle schoolers are just holding hands, nothing serious.
Maybe give her the talk a little but not in detail.
But you cant tell her not to date, because she will just do it behind your back!!
2006-09-17 02:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by mellow_26241 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all kids start dating in lik the first grade and so on. So i think that when parents start freaking out when there kid is dating in 6th grade its nothing new to the child cuz GOOD chances are that there friends or themselves have already had a boyfriend just havent told there parents about it. so i just want ppl to kno that times have changed sence all you adults have been in grade school and things are going all faster and quicker. so i just thought everyone should kno this
2006-09-17 02:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i'm making waiting to demonstrate 15 and that i might want to be iffy about courting a 16 year previous. I easily have had quite some pals who've "dated" guy with that age distinction and firgured out why adult men that age are conversing to women that youthful .. once she's in intense college the age distinction will be diverse yet at present you may easily in basic terms asume that he probable would not like her for her ... easily I easily have under no circumstances considered an age distinction like this, this youthful and under no circumstances considered something terrible ensue to the the girl.
2016-11-27 20:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll my daughter is kinda like that but both of them are a few yrs. older ...but in the 6th and 7th grade you wouldnt really call them a "boyfriend" its just two really good friends because a boyfriend is someone you go out with and talk to whenever you need to and stuff like that so i mean it's not like they are going anywhere to do anything or whatever!! i think you should invite him over for a day just to hang out!!
2006-09-17 03:33:25 · answer #11 · answered by DIANE H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋