Haha, i know it sounds wierd. But i have a guy i am deeply infatuated with. I have the biggest crush on him, and i dunno. i've known him all my life, but i have no idea what to do. I know we'll never be together, but i just want to kiss him, yet i dont want our friendship to be screwed up. Help please?
2006-09-17 01:52:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is difficult. Crushing on friends is always hard. I say just do it, and just say you've always wondered what it was like. If it goes further than that, good for you. If it doesn't, let it be water under the bridge and continue with your friendship.
2006-09-17 01:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by missesmoo236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moment you make the first move no matter how nice he is he will start to view you (consciously or subconsciously) as desperate, someone that he can take for granted and maybe even easy. Guys like the ego boost of a female making the first move but they typically end up pursuing the ones that they have to work to get access to. If you decide to wait and wait and wait and he never makes a move on you or discusses getting romantic with you it means as the book says "He's Just Not That Into You". Accept that, move and and end up with the type of man that makes things happen in his life instead of sitting back passively waiting for you to take charge.
2006-09-17 08:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Book Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the feeling isn't mutual. Kissing him, may not be what he wants. I suggest you not engage in unwarranted physical contact. If you were a man asking this? You may be arrested for attempted something!
2006-09-17 09:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by mike r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it sister
no need for the stretching of lips
besides what if he has something you do not know
and all for a kiss you contacted it
2006-09-17 08:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to a New Years Eve party and kiss him at midnight.
2006-09-17 08:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are going on a date with your dream lover that evening, and you need help practicing how to smooch with him.
2006-09-17 08:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by hudef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont panic......all u have to do is go to someplace where people rarely go and then talk to him about ur deepest sadness.
i believe that u'l be able to kiss him that day.
2006-09-17 09:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him
2006-09-17 08:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by Deea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it
2006-09-17 08:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by casperenrag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋