She's not the one for me. She has someone else. I fooled myself for sometime that it is ok and that maybe, just maybe, she'll choose me afterall. I can't fool myself anymore. The signs are there. But I feel like dying each day she's not with me. I said goodbye lots of times and end up eating my pride in the end. How do I stand my ground this time? I really have to do the right thing. But God, it's killing me.
2006-09-17 00:54:00 · 12 answers · asked by MARY ROSE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had that same situation happen with my husband. It's very difficult to let go and move on with your life I know. The hurt I felt was so intense it was physical. Please believe me when I say time is the healer and distance. Avoid this person. Don't keep going back opening yourself for more pain. It's over. Done. She doesn't want you. Tell yourself that over and over. She's got another person in her life to take your place. Let the days go by and eventually you will regain who you are and you will be okay. Be strong for your sake and get your life back.
2006-09-17 01:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww...... im soooo sorry things had to be that way 4 u guys! that's terrible, this situation is kinda like this chris brown song "IT's never the right time to say good bye. cuz he's all like " how do u let go when u, you just dont know what's on, the other side of the door when you walkin out........." But uh anyways, if you are a believer in God, i would say to pray and pray hard! Ask him for the strength to hold out, to do what it is you know you gotta do, try to focus you're energy and thoughts else where.
2006-09-17 08:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are nothing wrong with the feels you have. It's O.K. to hurt you would be a very insensitive person if you didn't. And because of the kind of person you are you will find just the right person. remember one door closes and another one opens. You just have to know it when you see it it's not going to you It's going to be that person that's not part of the crowd but there just waiting for the right person to come along.
2006-09-17 08:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the most hideous picture(s) of her that you have. Even if she's gorgeous in all of them you can doctor something up with your photo editor. Gap out her teeth, skew it horizontally so that she's 300 lbs., put acne all over her, whatever... Then use it as your desktop wallpaper for 2 weeks. Maybe even print out wallet-sized pics and never be afraid to take a peek, feeling relieved that she's behind you...
2006-09-17 08:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by crosscheck75 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Focus on your life get your education go to work do what you gotta do be a grown man even though i have a bf my boyfriend tells me he don't need a girl and i tel him i don;'t need a man you just want that signicant other but you don't need them be strong i have a lot of respect for you cuz thats hard for a boy to realize everything you said.
2006-09-17 10:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should put your interest in other things in your life.Just get over her and move on.I know sometimes moving on can be the hardest part.Tell her that you do not want to talk anymore or tell her what you feel.If you did that already then she dont care about your feelings.Move on .
2006-09-17 08:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going thru the same problem at the mo buddy , i think the only way is to go cold turkey, at first it will be very hard but it will get easier in time, dont phone email or see herr and go out and keep yoursel busy
2006-09-17 07:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by johnny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not easy to stand your ground,especially in love and when your heart is hurting so badly.ask GOD for his guidance and it may not happen in your time but he will give you the strength and courage you need to pull yourself through this.have faith in yourself and in GOD.
2006-09-17 07:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by jojo91455 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about mind over matter. When people get tired of something, they'll put a stop to it.
2006-09-17 07:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting go is never easy... get out and do some physical activity.. bike, kayak, jog. but don't sit around THINKING.
2006-09-17 07:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by tampico 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋