This guy and I have been sort of working together (different departments, but we're forever on the phone - work related). A few months ago I thought that he fancied me, now I'm convinced that he does - he told of his mates who told me that this guy likes me a lot, yesterday he rang me and sent me a few txts. I'm rather keen on him too but feel like I can't really do anything because he has got a girlfiend. What do you think I should do?
2006-09-17 00:48:26 · 32 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah that's what I thought too, johnboy!
2006-09-17 00:54:07 · update #1
put yourself in his girlfriends shoes - youwouldnt like it if your boyfriend was carrying on this way would you?
You're better off walking away from this one - I mean if if you did get with him - you could never trust him! What he did to her, he'll do to you.
Id leave it off and even go so far as reprimanding him next time he flirts with you - remind him he has a girlfriend and shouldnt be carrying on that way.
2006-09-17 21:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u heard of the chase is better than the catch! I know cos this happened to me.
the fact u can talk 2 people in work about this is good so u can get ur msg accross, without havin to talk to him face to face.
tell them u know he has a girlfriend so u can't go there untill its over with her. that is the only way u will go out with him.
why should he have his cake and eat it. would u do it?
it is ture about what comes around goes around.
if he really wants u he will finish with this other girl. don't let yourself be used more so because it will be the talk of all your work mates! good luck n the best thing comes to those who wait
2006-09-17 02:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plz don't get involved with this fellow like this when he's got a girlfriend.The 2nd reason's that u 2 work in the same place,so u better keep it professional.U might not like my suggestion but mixing personal & professional fronts really makes life difficult.
2006-09-17 00:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by aditi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that he's got a girlfriend! If he's interested in a relationship with you he would end the one with her. If he comes to you and he's still involved it's a booty call and nothing more. Just like he would cheat on her, he would cheat on you or any other woman that he goes with. I'd keep my business with him professional until and unless he shows the respect for his current girl and for you by breaking up with her, giving it a little time, and then asking you out like a gentlemen.
2006-09-17 00:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether or not if you respect other women to not invade on their relationships. It also depends on whether or not if you expect the same respect from women when you are involved in a relationship. I think you should wait until their relationship ends or if he wants you bad enough then tell him that he needs to break up with his girlfriend. He needs not to play games with you or his girlfriend. Good Luck.
2006-09-17 00:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Novotny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has a girlfren. He is ok with the idea of cheating and why would you want to be with him if he is of such low character. Unless you just want a fling, then go ahead.
If not, ignore him.
Don't play with office folks - it's the worst kinda breakup to recover from.
2006-09-17 00:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have a serial flirt on your hands. the only way to deal with this is to tackle it head on. tell him how you feel and that you have gotten similar vibes back from him - you know he has a girlfriend and you want to know what the craic is. there you go and now you know is he serious or just a flirt! good luck.
2006-09-17 00:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to do the first move, Girl, afterall he still has a girlfriend. If he really likes you let him resolve that himself and have the man prove to you how much he really does.
2006-09-17 01:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by MARY ROSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the word out that you don't go out with men that have girlfriends. Someone will be happy to spread it around and plant that little bug in his ear for you.
2006-09-17 00:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be really careful about work place romances and he already has a girlfriend sounds like trouble to me.
2006-09-17 00:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋