My last period was 23rd June and I slept with someone who is not my partner on 30th June which was a one off. I have also been sleeping with my current partner regularly since 4th July. How can I know who's the baby is and how far gone I am?
2006-09-17 00:13:46 · 15 answers · asked by L 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
paternity but that means you're going to need to tell both of them.
2006-09-17 00:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by tampico 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since your regular partner didn't become that untill July 4th. He should be able to understand that you had a sexual life in the weeks prior to your dating him. Let him know that you are not sure if the baby is his or the other mans.
If the guy doesn't know yet.... well better make it obvious.
You need to see a healthcare provider. At the least go to a minor emergency room and find out how far along you are and they can direct you to good doctors to help you through your pregnancy. Early care is essential to your fetus. Doctors will be private about your care, they are required to be by law.
2006-09-17 07:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a slight, very slight, possibility it was that other someone, but a stronger chance that your partner is the father of this child. Worrying is bad for your health and the baby, so please stop. If you've decided to carry this baby to term, there isn't any point in beating yourself up over a bad choice.
Not the most upstanding way to go, but if your partner is in this for the long haul and doesn't question the paternity of the child, I wouldn't tell him anything, especially right now.
2006-09-17 07:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by auld mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear tell me whether u are married to the current partner. If u are married it is a very sensitive issue and u need to handle carefully. Otherwise just drop the baby.
even if your current partner is yur husband it cfould lead to complications as suspicions could lead to a bad marraige and fianlly separation.
In any case the best option is to get aborted. Pls do not cheat for the sake of a few moments of fun. U have a wonderful life ahead which dont waste. life is too short to suffer for these reasons...
2006-09-17 08:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can have a paternity test done before the baby is born now but it can cost almost $1000.
The best person to tell you how pregnant you are would be a Dr. If you have a regular 28 day cycle, it is more likely that your patner is the father.
If you're going to cheat, use condoms. Not just to prevent pregnancy but to prevent the spread of STD's.
2006-09-17 07:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Theres no point in here to blame sleeping with 2 men. Its done. But I think the father is your current partner. Discuss this to your ob gyne and you will get the best answer. She will ask about your cycle, dates of you peak fertility and so on...
Dont go on abortion.
Good luck.
2006-09-17 08:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Vixen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a paternity test. Contact your OBGYN or local health professionals for more information.
You also need to confess your behavior to your partner and getting an additional STD would not be a bad idea either.
2006-09-17 07:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by goldfish65398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do , don't get an abortion...seriously i gotta ask, why are you sleeping with 2 different guys? you already got one! why do you feel like you need another one to go along with that one guy? it's a sick feeling to me that these guys could be carrying a dises becasue they've been doing the same thing with another girl! 15 other girls for that matter...I would stop sleeping with strangers...
2006-09-17 08:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by hannahgirl333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a Maury episode . . your best bet is to get a paternity test done . . . and be honest with your partner . . .
2006-09-17 08:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was it unprotected with both of them? Go for a paternity test.
2006-09-17 07:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by switch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋