after a tough few months, im feeling abit sad. can you give me a reason why life is good and why it all goes wrong sometimes?
2006-09-16 23:28:17 · 30 answers · asked by english_latina 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
How old are you?
I am 33 and house wife and mum of two.
I have been through hell and back here's a few examples:
My husband has had cancer of the testicle twice now and had them both removed. And had to still go for check ups. Scans, Blood, etc.
And also he has to have a implant done every three months for his hormones.
How bad is that! and he doesn't smoke. How cruel is that.
And me well I broke my back two years and three months ago now, and was told I would never walk again. But good news I proved them wrong. I t took a while but I did it.
These are only few of my horrible things.
All I can say to you is, You are lucky to be alive and make every day a special one. Live life to the full, as if it is your last.
Sorry life too, as been horrible to me, and I keep thinking that Myself and my family are cursed.
Good luck!
2006-09-16 23:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by samleigh40@btinternet.com 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Life Is What You Make Of It ,
And Yes Sometimes It Sucks,
But You Are Alive, And Well,
Write Down Everything You Have To Be Pleased For, Stick Them On A Wall So You Can See What's Good In Your Life Everyday,
Then The Sad Things, After You Have written Out Your Sad Things, Screw Them Up And Throw Them Away, There Gone Now.
2006-09-20 10:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is really very good. One should know how to handle the situations. Everytime everything cannot be the way you wanted it, so be prepared for the worst always. In difficult situation, your first thought should be how to come out of the situation instead just grumbling and expect sympathies from other. Don't spoil your life like that, it is so beautiful. My suggestion, when you are in problem, take a piece of paper and write down the alternative solutions to your problem and then you write what will happen if I take situation 1 or 2 (advantages and disadvantages). Go through the sheet again and again and take one decision and whatever happens after that decision, don't regret. Enjoy your life and always think that your problem is your problem and you have to handle it, as nobody knows you better than yourself. Love yourself and love your life and live happily. Don't encourage problems to come near you. Just that that these are not problems, actually these are different situations to make you sad. Handle it very confidently and happily. All the best and wish you all the happiness.
2006-09-16 23:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by reema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If life were easy than really what is the point of living?
we need the bad so as a reason to conquer it...everyday most people struggle with their daily routine and certain days it gets to everyone a little more than most... but if you continue to at least go out and try to battle those demons than the victory will taste alot sweeter in the end. Just remember as long as you are in the fight it means it will strengthen your character...somedays you will feel like you are losing the battle but just remember that your war is well not over. Just can't let it get to you cuz you have to continue on with your life....
Just think of it this way, if life were easy than how boring life would be?...no goals to reach, no plans to make...(a coma sounds alot more exciting)
Chin up..better days ahead!
2006-09-16 23:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by goaltenderforhire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is good as long as you have people around you that love you, yes it does go a little off track at times but if you look upon these times as character building and turn to those close to you for support you will come out the other side a better person. Keep you chin up hunny and remember there is always someone out there for you xxx
2006-09-16 23:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by joanne v 72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been through a tough few months it is natural to feel bad. Look after yourself and keep yourself safe. Try to find people to discuss your thoughts with. Eventually you will feel good again, it will come, I just do not know when.
2006-09-19 01:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you walk?
Can you use both arms and hands?
Are you able to see?
Can you hear clearly? Can you hear music?
Do you have your sense of taste?
Will you be able to lie down to rest, and try again when you wake up?
Now go visit a nursing home. Then visit an institution for the mentally ill. And go drive through a trailer park or through the projects of low income people.
Go look at the websites on what is happening in Darfur, Iraq, Congo, Afghanistan, the Horn of Africa.
Now, I would like you to answr your own question, please.
2006-09-16 23:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life is like a pimple on your face. The more you squeeze,
messer it gets. Find websites about jokes and try to make jokes
about everything and tell them to others. If they laugh with you,
not at you, then you're on the roll. Having a great sense of humour can help you deal with roughness you face in life.
2006-09-17 03:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by chainsaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all go some bad patches at some stages in life i know i have but i just think of what i have got and how i can make things better in my own life and everything comes together in the end. My saying in life is: if you don't laugh you cry.
2006-09-16 23:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by carla s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life's a journey....Everytime you stop and look around you, it gives you new reason to go on ahead...
life's nice because when you least expect it, it'll surprise you and make you smile...
life gets tough so it can make you tougher...make you stronger each passing day
2006-09-16 23:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jacky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋