whats the differnt between love -crush-like-fancy-obsesstion
how do u know if i really love her ?!?!
and how do i know if she really loves me ?
not just a crush or a jealousy thing
and how do u know its going to lasT?
old people i know you know so tell me lol
and whats that thing they always say " u dont love her u just love the idea of her" what does that mean ? lol
2006-09-16 23:18:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you miss her company and she misses yours. in other words you really enjoy being with one another like you enjoy the company of your best friend. of course, there is the sexual attraction as well.
to have any chance of having a lasting relationship is just like the way you treat a best friend.they are your best friend! these are people your heart feels are well worth their short comings (we all have them!)
don't ever try to make some one something they are not. they may have a quality you like but, choose not to have that be a dominant part of them. this is why you should take time to get to know one another.
2006-09-16 23:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by mjohn28497@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am an old person, so to try to answer this question i would have to think, what is it that u want from her in the first place, second to love someone, u must first c if u like being around her, all the time, n on top of that do what u would not do for yourself or anyone else, with out questions, n feel good doing it, n when u look at her everyday n u smile just to c her close to u, well that would be a start.
2006-09-16 23:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by murflaw76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that I am admitting to being old, : ) The difference between love and infatuation is that with love it should work both ways. To love someone means that you want to see the best possible for your mate, and she in return, and it will grow more together. If you love her and she doesn't feel the same. Can you be happy for her if she finds happiness with someone else? Or do you just get a warm and fuzzy feeling with the thought of being and getting close to her. If it is real love you would feel both
2006-09-16 23:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by twoshotjudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after youve dated,and had some good,and bad experiences you'll come to know the differences in a mere crush and true love.
You'll also learn to know whether you love them,and if she really cares I assure you you will know it.
Noone ever knows for sure it will last the goal is that it will if it is serious.
although the number of years Ive existed probably are ancient to you I still feel/act/think,young so I have no idea what the answer to the rest of your query is.
2006-09-16 23:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by steveshoardhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you really love her when you feel like you can't even breath without her and without her your world will crumble and every moment of every day she's on your mind .She's not just what you want she's what you need she completes You she is your every thing now if you can say all that with a clear head Your in Love with her
2006-09-16 23:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is when you can give up anything in the world just to see that person being happy. he/she is on your mind 24/7 and you worry for his/her safety and happiness. When he/she is sad, you dont just got the urge to console them. You feel sad alongside with them. Love is not possessing that person. You are willing to let go just to make that person happy even though you'll be hurt.
Love makes you stupid, makes you smile for no reason, makes the smallest things in life significant just because that person is part of it.
2006-09-16 23:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by why_oh_why 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i had this question once that what love exactly means and i really got nice answers....i think love is sth that makes u become sn else sn that ur lover wants u may don't like the things that u loved before coz she/he doesn't love one sport reporter said"when a woman asks me about football i understand that she is falling in love".......and if u see the movie of Original Sin he says Love is Give and give again......love is giving everything to another one and taking everything that sh/he has.....when u think that sn is giving everything of her to u and she is becoming destroy in urlove be sure that it wil last forever i hope that u've got the answer take care and byeeeee
2006-09-16 23:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by N0t Known Never Ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest??
-It isn't love, it's LIKE.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right??
-It isn't love, it's LUST.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off??
-It isn't love, it's LUCK.
Do you want them because you know they're there??
-It isn't love, it's LONELINESS.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants??
-It isn't love, it'S LOYALTY.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand??
-It isn't love, it's LOW CONFIDENCE.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you\don't want to hurt them??
-It isn't love, it's PITY.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat??
-It isn't love, it's INFATUATION.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them??
-It isn't love, it's FRIENDSHIP.
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of??
-It isn't love, it's a LIE.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake??
-It isn't love, it's CHARITY.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad??
-Then it's LOVE.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong??
-Then it's LOVE.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts??
-Then it's LOVE.
2006-09-16 23:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love means being able to still accept her and love her no matter how angry she made you, how stupid she sounds and how silly she present herself to the public.
Love means you forgive her of all the things she did that hurt you and you still love her even when she is terribly sick.
If yes, then it is love.
2006-09-16 23:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the feeling your feel when you feel you're going to feel the feeling you've never felt before.
2006-09-16 23:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by SPLATT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋