i'm talking, if you have no kids yourself, would you take on someone else's?
2006-09-16 23:15:10 · 16 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did.. and we eventually got married!! I'm not saying it was easy... all relationships are a give/take and marriages are a partnership. It's helpful to have the same philosophies in child rearing and when you do disagree on something, it's NOT discussed in front of the child. You also have to be willing to take on a lot of extra emotional baggage, but I found it to be worth it.
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2016-04-26 21:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally speaking, I would not -- and I don't know any other women who would either. Feeling sorry for a bloke is no foundation for a relationship.
Men and women alike with child custody are kind of like 'damaged goods' in the dating marketplace -- especially if the children are so young! It's particularly a problem for men who have custody because, like or lump, society still expects women to be the main child-carers. Which could put your date (potential new partner) in a hell of a bind if she's not yet prepared to be seen as mummy no.2. With young kids in the way, it'd be hard to establish a grown-up (not child-centric) relationship with the man. You can't spend more than a brief couple of hours alone together. And of course there's the risk of the kids becoming too attached to the girlfriend or not liking her at all. Complications galore. No fun.
Many people who have such young kids have to put off dating until the kids are a bit older. It's too much hassle otherwise.
2006-09-16 23:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tricky question!...depends on how much you like this man, he must be a good man to have custody in the first place so if i was you i would probably give the relationship a chance and see how it goes but dont go moving in with him or anything like that for a while, just take a day at a time and also get to know the kids....hope it all works out in the end for you.
2006-09-16 23:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well surely unless she`s like a nanny,or comes from a big family,and was like' mum',it`d make sense if the woman had children herself,and had the experience.More importantly,accepts them.Their going to need that special somebody who`ll weather their emotional storms,and will care enough,put them first.Be willing to take a back seat
2006-09-16 23:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there & done that. You'll ruin your life. The kids will ALWAYS come first. When they act up, dad will always take their side because they 'have problems' since their mother abandoned them. You'll never be able to go anywhere or do anything without them. Don't even ask, cause you'll be seen as selfish and uncaring. You'll find out why she ran off and left them and him.
2006-09-16 23:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by ***&&*** 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well if you love him then go for it....i am with a man who has 4 kids, i love his kids just as much as i love him, if you want to be with this man you have to accept that he has children and that they will be with him forever, if you dont like the idea of him having kids then you should not date him, especially if you dont have any of your own....you have to bond with them, otherwise your relationship will not work, he will always have them kids regardless
2006-09-16 23:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course, if you love someone then you have to. I am a single mum and id hope that me having a kid wouldnt people off
2006-09-17 10:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very easy - if you can't face the prospect of a Ready Made Family (RMF) then don't bother - otherwise give it a chance...
2006-09-16 23:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋