Fresno, Ca/2yrs. old/ Lilith
2006-09-16 22:40:41 · 15 answers · asked by Hugo S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Me and my ex are seperate and we've lost contact for thpast six months. I know shes safe.. I only wish to somehow contact them...
2006-09-16 23:05:28 · update #1
Huh? Sounds funky. If you are allowed to be in contact (i.e. granted visitation) , then she is supposed to keep you informed of her whearabouts. If she disappeared on you, contact your lawyer and let him/her take it from there.
If not, then there's a good reason, so leave them alone.
2006-09-20 16:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your ex's family. Spend the money you are not paying for child support to hire a private detective. Go to the websites that offer to find people, just using an old address you may hit on a new address. Go to whatever local agency your ex would go to if you were missing and she wanted child support, they would find YOU, ask them to find her so you can pay child support. Where I live that would be the local welfare office.
My husband lost his children through divorce in the 1980s, we have never seen them again. I sure wish we had hired a detective back then but we were broke and raising our own three children.Today they are 27 and 29 years old.
Good luck, do not give up. You have rights and so does your child.
2006-09-18 21:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by ebosgramma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all Im not saying your are a bad parent but when you got separeted you should of keeped your child,,,, but I dont your situation so you can contact his family and see if they know anything about him,,,,, and if you by any chance dont know anything about his family I recoment you to call a lawyer there are many that dont charge,,,, if it was his fault you got separated then you could fight custudy of the child,,,, but if it was your fault then is going to be alittle harder but worth it,,because is going to be his word agains yours,,,,,, remember is his words agians yours ,,,but in any case where you dont win the case you could ask for joint custudy,,,, Im sorry if im being to honest with you but you have to take a look at all the aspects of the problem,,, you wanted some honest opinions well thats my honest opinion,,,, theres many people that can help you just dont give up on your child,,, remember the problem is between your husband and you,,, hope you find your daughter soon,,
2006-09-22 10:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's no reason for you to not be in the child's life, meaning, the reason she left wasn't because you are violent or abusive, then start by contacting your ex's family members and friends. Surely, you must know what kind of work she does and where she might have chosen to live. On-line phone directories may help you.
2006-09-17 08:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by auld mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously aren't that worried and know she is in safe hands with her mother. I think all you want is to see her, you are not saying that she has been kidnapped (as everyone else is jumping to conclusions). You should call up your ex's family or friends and somehow try and find her.
2006-09-17 09:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know any of her family or friends that you may contact to help find your EX........... or if you pay child support on you daughter, the child support office will tell you where there are unless your ex other wise told them not to, I wish you the best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-19 07:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by crazy2have3kids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's missing report it to the police. I haven't seen your daughter in Indianapolis!!
2006-09-24 22:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by Chi_Indy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call the police if your daughter is missing.
2006-09-17 05:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is serious,put up some details and call the cops.
2006-09-17 05:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by frank m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really missing, you should have called 911 already.
2006-09-17 05:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Gap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋