Even simple things, my mother is such a slops, all I want it's ask her to leave 'half' of the table (in the center living room) without her stuff. I have no money, no job, I need to live with her. I cannot move out.
I hated her, she is so messy, I don't care if her bedroom is messy. But I just want to have 'half' of a table (in the living room) empty. I hated this house that I live in, it's been yearS.
Please don't suggest "get her to see a counsellor", or "therapist", because she will not go.
2006-09-16 21:56:38 · 9 answers · asked by asknanswer 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I did talk to her 10000.......times (I forgot how many times), I give up talking to her.
I put my request to the lowest: half table empty without her stuff.
2006-09-16 22:00:56 · update #1
I am looking for a job, it's not easy to find a job.
2006-09-16 22:18:26 · update #2
I even took course to improve my work skills.
2006-09-16 22:19:05 · update #3
I did, I tried to clean up for her as much as I can. She don't want me to move her stuff.
2006-09-17 10:23:08 · update #4
I am serious, I hope you all can take this seriously. Because I want to die.
2006-09-17 10:24:05 · update #5
Get out. Seems she will not change. If it's her house, it's her house.
You get out. Find a shelter somewhere. You may end up doing something you regret, if you have any conscience.
Or get your own table, eh? You can often find free furniture in the alleys or at the recycling centre. Use your noggin, man.
And get a job already. Crikey.
2006-09-16 22:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Get up and clean the house...don't worry about her...she has problems, it sounds like...tell her you love to do it for her...she might even get a guilty complex and help you....just start cleaning..or at least clean your room, the bathroom, the kitchen, etc...don't say anything to her..just do it...dont hate mom because she is messy if she is a good mom otherwise...who knows why she does it..either lazy, or she's given up...you just clean the place and pray about it...
2006-09-17 01:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep all the parts of the house that you can spotless. You cannot force her to be neat and clean but you can inspire her and teach her. Other than that, just stay in your clean room or go out with friends. It will only drive you crazy if you let it.
2006-09-16 22:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kuji 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if SHE"S lazy ???? sounds like you are the lazy one..get a job..move out...or clean the mess yourself. It's kind of like voting in this country..no one wants to vote but they all compalin about the winner..it's not just her that needs to change, you got some changing to do, yourself..didya ever think of that???? Hate the house you live in...for years????you either have a lot of patience, are very lazy..or stay stoned alot..could be why you don't hv a job or money...who does your laundry ? who cooks your meals (7;--??)
2006-09-16 22:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can talk to her but older people are pretty much set in their ways and they don't give them up easily. Good luck!
2006-09-16 21:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by starrynight1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are rite...there are some people that you cant change even you try it for 100000000 times. in stead of changing them, you need to change yourself for proper adoptability.
there is a saying, "to change the world, start from yourself !!"
2006-09-16 22:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat some shrooms and all your wishes will come true.. the other day i talked to abe..lincon that is.. he said everything is going to be alrite- mkayyayay
2006-09-16 22:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your problem isn't your family. Your problem is money. If you do not want to work sell cocaine then, but get some money and leave them to their mess.
2006-09-16 22:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by possum 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
if you cant beat them join them so i suggest becoming sloppy dirty and lazy wooolah problem solved ehh?
2006-09-16 21:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋