I'm afraid guys will think 'ew' if I flirt, even though when a guy likes me I take it as a compliment...
How do I get over my phobia? How can I learn to flirt with guys at my school?
2006-09-16 21:40:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess you could say flirting takes confidence
so find something that makes you confident whether it be an outfit you look stunning in, or a hot eyeshadow that just makes your eyes pop. and go from there. if your confident not only will you be able to flirt but he will find the confidence attractive.
good luck :)
2006-09-16 21:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a phobia. Flirting is a form of deception. You can be more real and popular by simply being yourself and up front...and keep your integrity and character as well. Concentrate on having clean fun. Don't let boys be your main concern...after all, you know what they want.
Focus on your studies and start now to prepare yourself for your future. You want to be self sufficient and not have to depend on anybody for your lively hood.
Let the boys do the flirting...you just be you.
2006-09-17 04:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to flirt with guys to got attention,your worried about the wrong guys.flirting is easy just look in the eyes and smile,love is hard to find.
2006-09-17 04:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by TYRONE S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to flirt all the time. Just talk to them seriously. The right type of guys like this.
2006-09-17 04:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really tough one. Maybe try starting out with a guy you don't find so intimidating.. like a "starter flirt". Someone you wouldn't be afraid that would reject you.
2006-09-17 04:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, Just be yourself. If a guy doesn't like you, he doesn't like you. It's his loss. Don't flirt like you're a hooker, just playfully flirt, you know? I'm sure if you do it "right", the guy will be impressed, if not, then, like I said, it's his loss. Good luck with getting over your fear!
2006-09-17 04:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt as a various additional appeals which coming out from your love sight. It will come from yourself naturally and no need to learn.
2006-09-17 04:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Martin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart im a guy and its okay we know how hard it can eb for girls but just go easy on your self just give a guy a few obvious sighnes of flirting he should notic eand if hes the one he will make it easier for you
2006-09-17 04:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember that when you flirt is to be yourself at all times and don't worry about what they think.
2006-09-17 04:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy after all guys are human beings
2006-09-17 04:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by Veruska R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋