i told her before we got together, that i had no intention in trying to get into her pants....im not gay, just smart....anyway later she brought up a bunch of stuff like you know wanting sex and i stayed with my earlier comments... she really seemed to mean what she said, later i said if it wont work out for you thats fine....after this she said "i was testing you and you passes" i mean hey fine with me but do you think she was testing or just not wanting to ditch me..basically? would you test a guy to that point like that?
2006-09-16 21:14:41 · 8 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You children are still playing at a relationship!Mature people talk about things and do not play stupid games. Tell her you don't want to play hide the salami on the first date because you think early sex confuses things way too fast! I'm not saying you couldn't do it later. Just do it as an expression of what you feel for her, a culmination of how perfect she is for you and not as a way to exercise the seminal vesicles!! Be careful. She is a legal adult at 18 and may be able to be convicted of statutory rape for sleeping with you at 16. I'd check it out before you get too hot and heavy. Personally a woman who plays games with me will be promptly shown the door but if that's your thing have fun and learn the hard way! Good luck!
2006-09-16 21:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i became youthful and had an infatuation with a sixteen year previous. My mom approximately flipped her lid. You reported you think of that's love. there are maximum of styles of affection, and having a weigh down isn't the comparable ingredient. i became not allowed to this element till i became sixteen or maybe then i became not waiting. you quite shouldn't kiss somebody at your age in that way. you will understand greater as you become older. you should in hassle-free terms be friends and not the rest appropriate now. once you become older, then in case you the two are nevertheless interested in a minimum of one yet another, then you could talk courting. quite, the age distinction at your age is an improved deal. you recognize each and all the stuff that ought to ensue. you in addition to might say which you the two do not make plans on having intercourse, yet each and every now and returned issues ensue after which you'll want you quite did not do something. while you're actually not the right age to get a job, you quite are actually not the right age to have that form of courting. i might tell my own little ones no if it have been them rather of you. i desire you could understand their way of questioning additionally as you like for others to understand you. no rely if that's meant to be, that is going to ensue while the time is physically powerful. friends in hassle-free terms for now.
2016-10-15 02:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants your male rooster, she said she was testing you so she didn't seem like a slut. she seems like a cool girl. keep being smooth but definitely have sex with her. it's obvious she wants to.
and as far as tests, yes, girls test their guys all the time.
especially when you are both youngsters.
2006-09-16 21:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Trevor B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to be older or of the same age as the girl to love her! She's the one whom you like, you love her. But if she is not interested in you, you have no right to force her!
2006-09-16 21:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by sando 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who has to play dumb "testing" games with a potential partner is not "meant" for anybody.
2006-09-16 21:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i would tat a guy to that point
2006-09-16 22:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wanted to know if you ment what you said...
2006-09-16 21:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Score!!!
2006-09-16 21:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋