My ex hasn't called me since we've broken up, says HI to me when we run into each other. He's really close to his mom n still talks to her about me. Still has our picture up in the same place, got a tattoo that i gave him and introduced him to after we broke up. Ran into him in the club the other night (haven't talked to him in 4 wks) Texted him, he said he's outside. We went to the side and talked. I told him that I wanted to make this work. He said that he's not against it but it would take time. He's been in his comfort zone for 3 years, hadn't had a girlfriend until he met me. I asked if he was talking to anybody and he said, there is a girl that he kinda is. I told him then that I don't want to mess anything up with you and her if thats who you want to be with, and he said if I wanted to be with her I would, you are my first choice. I asked him about the tattoo and about not calling me. It was a good converstation, but I don't know where to go from here
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2006-09-16 21:11:01 · 8 answers · asked by ConfusedK 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With most guys, they don't know what they want.Depending on the reason for the brake there are a few of possibilities. One is he wants to be with You but don't think it is going to work out . So he has someone so he isn't alone if it doesn't. 2 he wants to leave and move on but don't want to start all over, your familiar other poss. is he wants you to want him. Its like saying., change what I don't like or I'll find someone who will.I think you should try to be your self, go about your life and know that him (or you) being with someone else is going to hurt your relationship you should forward with you life and see if he catches up. Plus your problems don't go away 'cause you broke up, your just not around to fight about them.
2006-09-16 21:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by TYRONE S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing i can tell you is he is an ex for a reason and sounds like he is a lost little boy both of you should just tske the loss and be friends if you can be and if it was ment to be then fine if not move on it also sound like he has abit of a stocker mode in him so please be careful
2006-09-17 04:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by reddevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy is actually trying to see if you are still interested in him.
2006-09-17 04:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Chronos23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did your part. You seeked him out. Did what you had to do. Now wait and see what he will do next. Where will he go from where you left off from?!
2006-09-17 04:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by misuran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie but sounds like he doesn't want to be with you.
2006-09-17 04:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by wowwhatwasthat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's at least interested
2006-09-17 04:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by COlin W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL HIM HAVE A CONVERSATION W/HIM
2006-09-17 04:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-17 04:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋