I have recently started dating my long time friend and I know he adores me. But the relationship as a couple is pretty fresh and on Thursday I called to meet him and he invited me to his workplace. Gosh. I was happy but since I had to meet him after an entire day out in the sun, I reached his office looking like some dark-skinned, red-faced rag. I mean I was sweating, my skin looked really dark from all the sun exposure and I dont know how I appeared. Apparently, he didnt seem to notice that coz he was sweet as he usually is. We stayed in his office for half an hour, talked like we normally do and then I left. I am still worried abt the impression I must have left on his co-workers and probably my guy too. Do I need to worry?
2006-09-16 20:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is wrong with your skin looking dark from the sun?
He probably knows you were out in the sun and probably didn't even notice. I wouldn't even worry about it.
If it bothers you tell him that you were worried because you were all sweating from being in the sun all day and wish you could have cleaned up first. He will probably say it didn't matter or he didn't even notice.
No big deal and definitely not a blunder.
2006-09-16 20:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Trevor B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not care at all what others think, I know it's easier said then done but I really think that's how insecurities get started to early in the honeymoon period of a relationship. Be confident and stand tall no matter what you look like at the moment. Enjoy all these great feelings you guys are having with each other and don't sweat the little things so early on, if a guy would change his interest in you because of a opinion from a co worker on your not so top notch appearance that day the guy needs to be kicked to the curb. But that does not sound like the case, so have fun!!!!
2006-09-17 03:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by brittany S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is a type that can easily be swayed by people he just sees at work, then the guy is not exactly a guy but more like a chump.
Only worry if he actually brings it up later on. Plus since you stated that you and him were long-time friends before starting dating, it is doubtful that there would ever be a need to impress him in that type of social situation.
The only time something like that would be a problem would be if you were showing up to say a Christmas party at his place of work.
2006-09-17 03:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Chronos23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI sarah, I don't see that you did anything wrong.You were in the sun all day, and you got a dark tan.Theres no big deal about that.Who gives a rats a s s what his co-workers think.You were there for your B.F., and he didn't mind at all how you look.So,No need to worry.
Clowmy
2006-09-17 03:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. As a long time friend he has most likely met you in all sorts of different moods, dress etc, and as he appeared not to notice it would seem he is interested in you as a person. After all,as relationships progress we see each other in many different situations!
2006-09-17 03:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by davepsrbr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give a crap what the co-workers think. Your guy seems nice in that he didn't notice.
Just say to him next time you're talking to him that you must have looked a wreck. I'm sure he'll say you looked lovely.
2006-09-17 03:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a gross, stupid, or careless mistake: That's your second blunder this morning.
–verb (used without object) 2. to move or act blindly, stupidly, or without direction or steady guidance: Without my glasses I blundered into the wrong room.
3. to make a gross or stupid mistake, esp. through carelessness or mental confusion: Just pray that he doesn't blunder again and get the names wrong.
–verb (used with object) 4. to bungle; botch: Several of the accounts were blundered by that new assistant.
5. to utter thoughtlessly; blurt out: He blundered his surprise at their winning the award
Yes it was
2006-09-17 03:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by severler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your guy did'nt say any thing about it, I think you should forget what his co-workers will say because you are not going out with them.
2006-09-17 03:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he likes you for you it sounds it would have been ovious if he was imbarrassed about you or uncomfortable guys aren't like girls you ahve nothing to worry about i would say
2006-09-17 03:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by going2md 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋