I called my bf john and asked me if i whould be okay if he started dating my best freind Christiana!!! I told him that i'd call him later with my answer but i don't know what to say!!!! He knows i love him and everything but i dunno if he feels the same. When i was talking to him on friday right afer our date he looked soo hamesome under the moonlight yet our conversation was sad!!! What should i tell john plz help me!!!
Kelse
2006-09-16 20:24:00 · 14 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what you told us here and get an answer STRAIGHT from his mouth. I don't think it's right for him to hurt you like this, but I guess he's not very serious about your relationship--at least not as serious as you. Honey, I'm very sorry to hear this. You love this guy, but he can't love you back. Maybe you should consider moving on instead of staying. He may want to date your best friend, and the list can go on NO matter how much you love him. Take care and don't let this jerk break your precious heart again and again by staying in this awful relationship with him. Best wishes.
2006-09-16 20:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by prudence z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, END IT!!!!! Secondly, why would John want to start dating "your best friend" Christiana? (Is she that good of a friend?) Apparently they have already been talking about this without your knowledge for him to even bring that subject up to you. Like one of the previous answers had said, unless you are in an open relationship....but those relationships are talked about at the beginning of a relationship (not knowing how long you two have been together.)
2006-09-17 04:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Demonfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Kelse, Sounds like this guy is a player, and doesn't care who he hurts.It's time to tell him to go to HELL, and get a life.Thats straight to the point, and a clean break.Sorry about this jerk,there lots of nicer guys out there.So don't worry,you will find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.A Friend
Clowmy
2006-09-17 03:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it.
If he actually asked you if he could date your friend, he is a horrible boyfriend. It is better to have no boyfriend at all than to have one you does not appreciate you or want to be in a relationship with you.
You sound young - if you do not learn now that you deserve to be treated well and with respect, you will let men treat you like dirt for your entire life. And that sucks.
2006-09-17 03:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, Kelse..as a man I can say that its beyond obvious that he doesn't givea shyt what you do. It's obvious that he's not into you...you should end it. But that decision is yours..in the end your gonna make your own move anyway!
2006-09-17 03:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want a relationship with you, then you have to let him go.
I think it is nice that he asked whether you'd mind him dating your friend. You could say yes but chances are, he will end up doing it anyway.
2006-09-17 03:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is bizarre... unless you guys have some sort of open relationship. It's obviously over for him so end it and cut your losses.
2006-09-17 03:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not the one for u...if john loves you trully he dont need to hurt you....asking you if its ok to you to date your bestfreind looks so stupid..let him go.....someone will come to you better than john just learn to wait he will come to you in the right time and in the right place....
2006-09-17 03:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by mayang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ending
2006-09-17 03:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell him to drop dead.i wouldn`t put up with that.go and find a new boy friend. this guy has problems.
2006-09-17 03:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋