I'm not pretty and likely, no one noticed me in school even I'm a prefect. I loved my best friend, his handsome so kind and have a lot of chemistry with me. But his popular in school while I'm not. What should I do to make him know I really love him? Some of my friends told me he might have interest with me by the way he treat me more than just a friend. Is he really like me or just treat in me in a good way because other boys never treat me like a real girl? I'm confuse!
2006-09-16 20:17:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, babygirl, you need to have higher esteem for yourself. "I'm not pretty... He's popular in school while I'm not..."? Don't think like that! No one will pay you much mind if you think little of yourself. Who cares if he's popular? If that's such an issue, you shouldn't try to get with him anyway because you're too concerned about what others think about [what's supposed to be between] the two of you. Lastly, you'll never know if he's interested in you if you don't approach him. He might be just as interested in you, yet he's afraid to approach you. Either way, one of you needs to be bold enough to say something. Get over the self-consciousness and say how you feel! The worst he can say is "no," and that's a loss for him, not you.
2006-09-16 20:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by beautiful_brown_pisces_eyes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off you have to stop thinking that you are not a pretty girl, guys see us differently then we see ourselves but if you think that you are not pretty it makes it a little harder for them to think we are pretty even pretty girls who have low self esteem can be lonely and if i were you just tell him state it this way "can i ask you a question and right after you answer it pretend i never asked" because its better to know then to wonder in my opinion but for sure take my advice on the first part
2006-09-16 20:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by going2md 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then be a Girl and surely there are many who would love you, dear never think of prettyness is the only thing what ONs men.
2006-09-16 20:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and let it all fall in place...why set your self up for rejection...you know now a days all people look for our looks...so what if he doesnt like you?and hurts your feelings and then you never want to be with anyone else or feels everyones going to reject you?think about it...
2006-09-16 20:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by chew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how you feel about him, sit him down and tell him all the reasons you love him :) and be happy that he knows.. and whatever happens happens.. but at least you told him.
2006-09-16 20:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try clothings & entice or intrigue him.
2006-09-16 20:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by sirawa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your confused, imagine what we are
2006-09-16 20:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by bama_cid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋