Okay, anyway I am 22 and have a serious question. Why is it that everytime I have a oppurtunity for no strings attach sex I always screw it up. Tonight I went to the bar and my friends girlfriend brought this gorgous girl. So I flirted with her all night and when we went to drop her off I decided to walk her to her apartment. We started making out for awhile and she asked me if I wanted to come upstairs. Acourse, I get nervous and tell her (here's a classic line) I am not a one night stand kind of guy. She said she respected that and we made out for awhile longer and than I left with her number. I mean what the hell is wrong with me...a gorgous girl wants to have sex and I deny it. I am not a virgin and not scared of sex or anything I just don't want to have sex with a girl that I hardly know. What guys turns this down....I am so angry over this situation it just happened about an hour ago and am just looking for advice to help me. Thanks in advance!
2006-09-16 20:14:13 · 9 answers · asked by Heythere1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also does telling a girl that your not a "one night stand kind of guy" a major turn off like i think it is or do some girls like you more for it?
2006-09-16 20:18:57 · update #1
Oh...by the way if this doesn't kick me in the *** even more..We were walking on South Street in Philly (a popular strip with all sorts of shops and bars) and she even bought the condoms.
2006-09-16 20:22:33 · update #2
You're a fool.
2006-09-16 20:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all always carry protection.You can go in and make out and see what happens. Try not to think about it being a one night stand. Just think about it like this girl really needs you to show her how desireable she really is. When the urge hits give in to it and get her number. Who says it is a one night stand? You might work in to a relationship where you meet each others needs with no strings.
2006-09-17 03:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, doing what you did may be the better way to go. If she is a confident person, she probably thought it was a good move by you. Now, if its just about the one night stand, then try and get over the nerves....just think to yourself how much fun your going to have! Then just do it! Forget about the consequences!
2006-09-17 03:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by BMWLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off man I give you major props....but jokes aside you did the right thing. There is so many diseases floating around out there anymore its not even worth having sex with someone you don't know. You seem to be a man with morals, they are few and far so keep it up bro.
2006-09-17 03:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin Federline 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it was only an hour ago... you have her number, call her and tell her you changed your mind and ask if you can come over. just don't forget to take protection with you
2006-09-17 03:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What guy turns this down? A smart one.
2006-09-17 03:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a good thing you didnt...ask yourself how many other guys has she had sex with and made out with...and all that other stuff
2006-09-17 03:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by chew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking a question, or are you just bragging?
2006-09-17 03:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have more respect for yourself and others then you thought you did
2006-09-17 03:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by too shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋