to an annoying boyfriend who never treat me like his special girlfriend? i do love him though.....
2006-09-16 20:09:07 · 7 answers · asked by dandelion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's the point in staying with someone who doesn't value you? or what exactly are you asking for in order to be his "special girlfriend?" Maybe you can talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he's someone who cares he should be considerate.
2006-09-16 20:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Teoshe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to take a break because he is not treating you like he should, tell him you don't know if it will work and you have to have time away from him to think about it. If he loves you, he will wait and ask you to come back. He needs to know what it's like to not have you around so he can realize how special you are to him. Or, go on a trip for a week or two without him and see if he treats you better when you come back. Sometimes some time apart is all you need.
2006-09-17 03:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by dawn27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand from your question that this person is special for you but does not treat you the same way. Your question also provides a hint that this person is held in the same esteem by many others, which indicates that you have competition in your hands. Get ready for the assault girl, dont take the things lying down. Out compete the rest. Show it to him that you are the only one meant for him.
2006-09-17 03:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him for a few days in the hope he gets the message, and only let him back if he promises to start being a bit more caring and considerate,if he doesn't want to do this for you, then he cant really feel that much for you so dump him for good and find someone more willing to take your needs into account..
2006-09-17 03:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by martinsbits2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU FEEL HAPPY AND SPECIAL! LOVE IS SPECIAL AND IF HE DOESN'T MAKE YOU FEEL IT THEN IM SORRY GIRL BUT KEEP LOOKING UNTIL YOU FIND THE ONE THAT DOES! DONT SETTLE FOR LESS! HE IS NOT THE ONLY FISH IN THE SEA! MOVE TO THE NEXT ONE AND IF HE AINT GOT IT THEN LET HIM GO AND EVENTUALLY YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT ONE! nO MATTER IF IT TAKES DUMPING 50 MEN----do not settle for less!!!!!!
2006-09-17 03:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can know how you feel sometimes we stay with somebody for reason we don't even know ourselves. I would like to think that your boyfriend should treat you better and properly dose not deserve you. But you know how you feel about him just the same
2006-09-17 03:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idunno he mite just be one of the guys you love to hate and hate to love
2006-09-17 03:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by moca frost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋