yea i told my gf one lie and shes acting like its the end of the world.
2006-09-16 20:00:05 · 23 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the lie was that i waited 7 months to tell her i had a kid and i lied about when i found out.
2006-09-16 20:05:54 · update #1
Because we need to know that in a realationship there will be honesty, or else how can we know when a guy tells us he loves us, or he's not cheating that he is telling the truth.
2006-09-16 20:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by answering queen! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone is caught in a lie the natural instinct is to then question other things. Some women may feel that if their boyfriend lied about “this” then may be they are lying about “that.” Trust is a huge part of all relationships. Try reversing your situation. If your girlfriend had told this lie to you, how do you think you would feel/ react?
2006-09-17 03:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by monica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most women consider having a child a BIG DEAL and you concealed the fact from her and lied about the timing. It might be the end of you in her world!!
2006-09-17 03:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are hating lies... One lie is the beginning of the second lie.. Ä°ts shows your personality. Ä°t will not be end of the world but you'll be ex bf
2006-09-17 03:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by severler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious about this girl you should know that TRUST is EARNED not GIVEN & If you Lie 2 her once it breaks down her trust in you & the realationship & she will always wonder from know on Is it the truth or a Lie
2006-09-17 03:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls want guys they feel they can trust. Personally I would rather hear the trueth than a lie anyday. Well she probably thinks if you lie about one thing what else are you lying about. I am not saying you are lying about anything else. Just telling you how we think. My advice is just tell the truth consistantly, and if she doesn't like the truth as her if she would rather you lied about it.
2006-09-17 03:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by always trying to be helpful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she doesn't think she can trust you anymore and until you regain that trust she won't trust you. The truth will set you free. Lies are never good especially in relationships, you have to be totally honest or it doesn't really work right. and well as you have had first hand experience with the chick normally goes nuts when it happens.
2006-09-17 03:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by gush_katif_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause, some women like for you to keep it real. Telling a lie to a women like that is almost like cheating on her, cause they figure if you lie about something simple or you tell just one small lie..they wonder what else your lying about.
2006-09-17 03:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the lie about? One lie usually leads to others - it's disrespectful and honesty matters if you're serious about developing a long-term relationship. Think about it.
2006-09-17 03:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may depend on the level of trust her has place on you. Why do you have to lie to her in the first place?. How will you take it if you are at the opposite end.
2006-09-17 03:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋