i have been seeing this guy for 2.5 years and i started talking to his friend when we broke up. I love my boyfriend but everyone says i should leave him because he has hit me and **** in the past but he is a descent guy.He works hard to take care of me.but i really like his friend a lot to i have for about 8 years or so. and i honestly think his friend would treat me better but i think i would have a better financial life with my boyfriend.
2006-09-16 19:44:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What u need to decide is which is more important o you ? the knowledge of bieng financially well off? or the thought that u dont have to worry bout bieng beaten up ? i know wich i would choose. NO ONE deserves to be in any realtionship where u may become harmed.Perosnally i would have walked away from him the minute he did it the 1s ttime. This guy may be decent etc but the fact remains he has still hit you. That is in excusable, ....ok think bout this....if u do get back together then the 1st thing is that he will automatically think he can do this over and over gain....hitting u etc and it WILL get worse and worse each time but more worrying is the fact if u ever have kids with this man? could u garuntee that his violent temper wont impact on ur son/daughter ? he doesnt have to hit the child for it to impact, seeing violence is enuf. I think u understand what imsaying. personally i would walk away from this guy and not look back, as for his friend ? well how does he feel about u ? also are u prepared for the backlash that will inevitably come round when and if u get with ur ex's mate ? its gunna hurt him big time no more than he deserves after hitting you but it could also damage u emtionally. Id leave him behind and take some time to let the dust settle and then see how the land lies with his friend. Good luck
2006-09-16 19:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Phantom Viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what it comes down to, it comes down to your heart. Where is your heart at. I see a lot of time people do not follow their heart and they need too. You do you really love and want to be with. Who cares about money, money does not stop the hurt of someone hit. So find the one you love, dont love the one you with.
2006-09-16 19:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this book called "The ties that bind"..then the sequel "loose ends" cause your situation sounds just like the story in the books. But, as a man I gotta tell you that dating your mans friens will only make a fool outta you in the end...im not even gonna go in details...but trust me!
2006-09-16 19:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having money and living financially stable isnt worth being abused as for the other friend i'd stay clear of him too if this guy found out you were dating his friend he might start beating the both of you
2006-09-16 19:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its no longer undesirable that peron change into there for u and cared about u enuff to seek for suggestion from from u loosen up u and then make like on your to make u sense new and make u for get what happend so even as u were haveing sex each and every ingredient change into more beneficial positive i say u ought to for get about your ex and keep haveing sex with that some one else man or woman and pass after him and see ware it pass's
2016-10-16 01:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your out numbered statistically speaking..sorry girl ..but dump him and move on..for your own good..take care
2006-09-16 19:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Veevee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO ARE YOU WITH YOUR CURRENT BOYFRIEND FOR THE MONEY ONLY?
CHOOSE ONE...EITHER LIVE A LIFE WITH A ABUSIVE MAN WITH MONEY...OR WITH A MAN WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH THE UPMOST RESPECT AND IS WILLING TO WORK WITH YOU TO KEEP YOU STABLE LIFE.
2006-09-16 19:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by ...guess.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's no good if he hits u and you really should stay away from his friend if your not happy with him go find someone of your own not his friend
2006-09-16 19:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your boyfriend a chance, but if he hits you again its time to go.
2006-09-16 19:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by konala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋