Okay let's say you had just met a girl and you found interest in her and you was thinking of asking her out....Well you asked her and she accepted your invitation for dinner...You two had dinner,it went great and both of you planned for another meeting...As time passed lets say 4more days at the most...
You and her had know each other no more then a week..And she started with all this "Oh I want you and I need you,you turn me on,etc......Whould you find that attractive and think that you would enjoy being with a girl like that because think....................................
If it has only been a week and she is so free willing to give that to you so easily then,who is to say that she wouldnt just any guy...
I try to put myself into a guys postion before I asked this question and I felt like I wouldn't like that because...I would want someone that doesnt want to be with everyone..
So main question is.....Being easy,is that attractive to you?
2006-09-16 19:42:47 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also.....What do you suggest that I do...Guys look at me and think she is a nice looking young lady im sure she is easy..Well Im very honest and Im not by no means easy...And I will not change for a guy..So should I just over look it and go my way or what?
2006-09-16 19:50:35 · update #1
There is a fine line...
Easy is not attractive to me for the reason that you gave... I she's easy to me, she's prolly just as easy to every other guy on the planet.
BUT!, on the other end of the spectrum, hard to get is not attractive either... eventually, we will get fed up of chasing and playing games and we will just move on.
There is the perfect middle ground; that's where you wanna be.
2006-09-16 19:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by MB_Bailey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone who dates is not necessarily looking for a long term relationship. A woman offering to have sex with you after so short a time might be very attractive for that particular time. It can be good for ones ego, not to mention overcoming a dry spell or short term bout of loneliness. It is also possible that this particular time was that particular women's dilemma as well. Who knows how things would turn out later, after (and if) the two got to know each other better.
All that being said...someone looking for something more permanent would not find her particular attractive. He would be inclined to think her easy and might not even accept the offer. On the other hand some men would pursue more conversation to try and get an idea of what they would be getting into first.
Suffice it to say that each individual situation would be different. Normally the answer would be no, but giving a blanket answer to a hypothetical scenario could only be hypothetical at best. I have learned that until you're actually in a situation you don't really know how you will feel or act.
2006-09-16 20:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being easy is not usually attractive, but it always depends on the the 2 people in question. A situation like that usually works more along the lines of a couple meeting and dating for the 1st time in high school and going from there, like for instance my nephew Jason and his now wife of 6 years.
2006-09-16 20:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Chronos23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem is, most guys don't think like that. Most guys are sorta like puppies. You scratch them behind the ears a couple of times, and they will follow you to the ends of the earth. Seriously.
Most men just hope and pray that the caring, loving woman on the other end of this relationship doesn't cheat on us down the line, when times get tough later in life.
Most men really don't put much thought into it, unless we've heard rumors from our other male friends that so and so cheated on her last boyfriend (or ex-hubby). Then the red flag goes up, and then men will start wondering about this girl, and whether or not she's worth the risk of a heartache.
2006-09-16 19:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No general rule! It probably depends how good I know her already, means what we talked the first time about. Then, perhaps my "feelings" decide. If I think she is the one which I was waiting for, and I trust her, why should we not go further?
It does not really help to make a time limite. It can be wrong as anything else.If she promises me " I wanna wait for 3 months....." Perhaps I get the impression she just teases me, and gets read of me after2 3/4 months anyway. Short: The time can be right after a few meetings, or long later, no standard rule!
2006-09-16 19:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy, whether he admits it or not, secretly dreams of beautiful women begging for his....uh....attention. Doesn't matter if he's 12 or 80. But knowing the difference between dreams and reality is what separates the boys from the men. A real man does not want a slut. Now, after he's married her, that's different. Ever heard the old saying "a lady on the street, but a whore in bed"?
2006-09-16 19:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being easy is not attractive. Anything worth having is worth working for. Working for something makes you appreciate it more.
by the way, I'm in Tennessee
2006-09-16 19:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by d b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 01:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stick to your guns! You have decent morals and to me that makes you very attractive! Always demand respect from others and in turn treat others with respect. this may or may not be cool with todays lifestyle but its the right thing to do. You rock girl!!!
2006-09-17 11:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not attractive. Easy for me means easy for everyone.
2006-09-16 19:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋