we had been together and really had no problems until he thought his friends and drinking were more important...thats when i just let go. This has slowly been going downhill and i think i found someone who i at least think is attractive and like being flirty with. i really just need someone outside of my head to help me figuere this out... i'm afraid it's to early to start dating again but i want to move on..
2006-09-16 19:33:02 · 17 answers · asked by girlneedssome help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could try, but I'd recommend not jumping into something too serious straight away. It might help to be with someone else to forget about your ex, but just take it slow & keep in tune with yourself, if it feels too soon take a step back
2006-09-16 19:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally this question raises alarm bells in my head, u have been with this guy for 3 years and ur ready to date already ? im assuming u love or loved him for the whole 3 years. Its a shame when a couple split and can be very traumatic emotionally and at time physicallly too. I think after a week u may be rushing it a lil bit. Im not saying stay indoors and become a recluse, in fact i would encourage going out and enjoying urself, explore ur new found freedom, but i wudnt get onto anything serious just yet, its still way too soon and too fresh in your mind. This new guy that u find attractive sounds great, but u need to sit down with him, maybe over a lunchtime coffee or something, explain to him how u feel bout him, but also expplain that u really do need time to take things slowly....see what he says, if he is a man that is likely to take care of u, he shud understand and try to work hings out with you. Good luck to you whichever u decide :)
2006-09-16 19:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Phantom Viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might think it's a little to early. If it's only been a week since you "broke up" that's completely understandable. However if you like flirting with guys but don't want to start dating again right off, that's fine.
It takes time to heal, I think that since you were able to "let go" that you might be able to start dating again in a month or so. If a guy think that drinking is more important than his girl, 1. He is completely wrong, & 2. He wasn't right for you anyway.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-16 19:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it, girl! You need to let go of your old time and have a great time with your new boy. Maybe he can give you more happiness than your ex-bf, right? It's not wrong to go out for a another date after you have broke up with your ex-bf. Even I do it and it feel much better than to think about my past relationship. Your ex thought drinking was way much better than you. What a waste...you must make yourself happy...go on! Have a nice date with a new boy. Maybe he can be you best mate ever! Who knows right?
2006-09-16 19:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
through the sounds of it hes no longer waiting to calm down, in which case your doing the right ingredient. you cant enable him attempt this to you so stay good and dont enable him back into your life until eventually you're 100% confident he has replaced and that he wont pass back to his previous concepts. attempt to come back to a compromise, so per chance he in worry-free words is going out once per week on his personal and then locate something that you'll both do mutually. to be honest even though it appears like even if in case you do fix issues out he will continually strengthen the actual undeniable reality that you held him back. strong success and stay good
2016-10-16 01:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do what is best for you. We can not answer that for you on this website. If you feel you are ready, then you are. If you are over the last person, good for you. Remember to learn from you past mistakes and have fun and a good life. Best of luck.
2006-09-16 19:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre on the bounce !!! nope its not a good idea to start dating again. Give it some time
2006-09-16 19:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by El Diablo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you are ready to get back out there you dont want to meet some rebound guy and end up hurting him when he wants more take some time out to enjoy your free self get to know you.
2006-09-16 19:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are ready then I suggest you go for it
2006-09-16 19:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to date, date. It doesn't have to be serious.
2006-09-16 19:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋