What are good ways to establish a date as a "Date", instead of just me going out and eating with some girl?

Question

I have a date with a girl I'm pretty into tomorrow night. Any advice on how I can let her know I'm romantically interested without being a jerk?

Funny, I'm usually the guy to answer these questions. I guess it's just a matter of needing to hear it from someone else, when it's you..

Thanks in advance for responses.

Answer 1

The first step in letting a girl know you like her is to ask her out. If she accepts then you at least know your foot is in the door. The first date is not the time to let her know you "love" her, if that's what you mean by "romantically interested". The whole idea of dating is to get to know each other. Who knows, you might discover some things you don't like. Just take your time.

Answer 2

Where to Take Single Women on a Unique Date She Will Never Forget


If you really want to a great impression on the women you take out for a date, here are some great ideas:

AMUSEMENT PARKS - This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller coasters, etc. Also, don't forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.

BALLOON RIDES - I am referring to hot-air balloon rides. This is a breath-taking experience you both will never forget. It's very romantic and some rides even come with champagne.

BOAT RENTAL - This makes for a unique experience and it's so relaxing and enjoyable. You can charter a boat with captain and crew or rent a powerboat for skiing, fishing, or just for cruising.

CAMPING - What a great way to enjoy the great outdoors! Things really get cozy and romantic sitting in front of an open fire! This is sure to melt her heart and make her want to share your sleeping bag.

CARRIAGE RIDES - This is one of the most ultimate romantic experiences. Just you and your lover or date in a horse-drawn carriage enjoying the scenery.

DINNER AT YOUR PLACE - One of my favorite things to do is to invite a woman over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this for a very special date.

DINNER THEATRE - There's nothing like good entertainment while you're eating. Your date will really be impressed and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.

GO-CARTS - These are a lot of fun for adults too. Why not challenge your date to a race around the track.

HAY RIDES - Have you ever been on a hayride? It's a lot of fun and something very different to do.

HELICOPTER RIDES - This was one of the most exciting dates I ever went on. My date and I took a helicopter tour of downtown San Diego and the Shoreline. I was especially fascinated flying over the skyscrapers and looking down on them. This will be an expensive date, because to charter a helicopter can cost you up to $500 an hour. If you can afford it, it's worth the money just for the experience.

HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES - Here's another fun activity you can both share and make some money too, if you are lucky.

ICE SKATING - Don't know how to skate? No problem, It's a lot of fun just learning. Sure, you're going to take a few spills on the ice. It's all part of the fun! This is great place to go on a date even if you don't know how to ice skate. You can always take lessons, too.

JET SKIS - This is like riding a motorcycle on the water and your date can ride on the back. Take my word for it, this is the ultimate joy ride while having some great fun on the water. You can rent them for about $20 for a half-hour.

KITE FLYING - Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or any wide-open space. Kites are not just for kids. It's a fun experience for all ages and it's kind of romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.

LIMOUSINE DATE - When you want to tell someone they're special, what better way to do it than with the unexpected. Sending flowers is nice, but sending flowers with a limousine is unforgettable. This is a great way to let dancers know they are real special to you.

LIVE MUSIC - This will put you and your date in a good mood, especially if the band is good. Check out your area for places that offer live music. Take her to Rock Concerts too.

MOONLIGHT STROLLS - When there's a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It's so romantic to take your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water.

Answer 3

tell them it's a date to u and you're happy and interested in her...bring a flower..go for a nice light lunch and a walk in a romantic park..see a romantic movie and go for candle lite dinner..be mannerly and kind and tell her u want to see her again.
ask her if u can have a hug good night and a small kiss..if u are brave...the kiss might be over the top..me i would like it if someone i went on a date did that...but if i wasn't into them..i would refuse them the kiss or tell them we will see next time

Answer 4

Having a date with her is already an indication that you are romantically interested in her and I doubt she would have accepted if she thought you were a jerk.
Try not to worry so much, just be your natural self and enjoy yourselves ;-)

Answer 5

Do NOT be too casual.

Ask her what time she's going to be ready . . . pick her up, don't meet her somewhere . . . bring a single flower, pink or mauve, with a fern and babies breath or a little handpicked nosegay tied with a ribbon . . .write her a short poem . . . something about her eyes will do . . .be extra-nice . . .escort her to her door, don't just let her out of the car . . .kiss her goodnight, or at least make like you want to do so . . .voila! its a real date!

Answer 6

Refer to it as a "date." Like, call her up a few hours before and say, "I just wanted to firm up the details about our date. Is 7 o'clock still okay for you?" Something like that. And just be super gentlemanly about opening doors and complimenting her on how she looks and thanking her for going out, etc. If you seem too casual about it, it will just seem like hanging out instead of a date.

Answer 7

Well of course since it's a date...you are going to pay and if you want to make sure she knows it's a date...when you call her say something like..."are you ready for our date?" that way there will be no questions as to what it really is.

Answer 8

Bring flowers. Hold doors, Tuck in chairs. Compliment her on her looks. And so on and so forth.

Answer 9

throughout the date, u can take her to a very nice, quiet n' romantic place with some good food n' fine wine.....ask her about her hobbies, interests, whatever u wanna know about her.....talk about your futures together.....hope this help!!!

Answer 10

EASY! Bring her flowers, open doors for her and pay for everything. She'll know its a date. also, be sure to walk her up to her door, you might get a kiss!