I was getting involved with my friends old girlfriend (who he cheated on, and currently has a girlfriend). He got pissed at me, and I thought her and I should still try things. We did, but I came to realize that this girl and her old boyfriend (my friend) still talked, and that she has feelings for him, and that he constantly tells her how messed up it is that I dated her. Well, we just broke up because I told her to decide if she wants to talk to be with him, or me. She said she was confused, so I said I don't wanna be with someone who's confused. WHAT DO I DO???
2006-09-16 18:57:18 · 12 answers · asked by LongyJonny5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-16 18:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by jmlmmlmll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur decision was both very wise and senseble, its perfectly obvious that he she has any confusion over her feeling towards ur friend then they are obviously going to be in the way of any romance u 2 may have. The last thing u need is the thought that she may have feelings for another man whule with u, that will do both of u no good and after time resentment will become obvious. So yeah i think u where wise, as for your friend ok maybe it was a bit close to the bone dateing one of his ex's however im confused as to y it shud be a problem for him if he alrady got a new g/f. I think they both still got feelings but they both scared of taking it further for fear of rejecting each other, but thats only going to be aa temporary thing, sooner or later they will realise it etc and im afraid to say the one to be hurt wud have been u and ur firends new girl. So well done, move on and hey u never know whats round the next corner.....and if ur friend dont come round.....well bollox to him if he got a cob on bout it thats his tuff luck innit , good luck mate good call
2006-09-17 02:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Phantom Viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, a real friend wouldn't date his best friend's ex. Second, you don't have the right to make her choose. She was with him first and will always care about him no matter what's happened. You are in the wrong and should just back out for your own good. Don't hang around and make a fool of yourself
2006-09-17 02:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you made the right decision to leave her. I don't think she's confused when she still sees her old boyfriend. Move on and find yourself a great girlfriend. Good luck!
2006-09-17 02:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by CRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing maybe she just needs time to think and it sounds like you need some time too. Just whatever you do don't fight over her with ur friend no girl is worth a broken friendship an vis versa
2006-09-17 02:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even trip about a girl whos not sure what she wants. Just play it cool let her come to you. Theres other woman out there. But if your really interested in her. Just wait for her to decide who she wants.
2006-09-17 02:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a HUGE rule in life...
NEVER date a friends ex! If you do then you're asking for trouble. So as far as I'm concerned it's your fault. It was a bad decision.
Let it go. Move on. Learn from your mistake.
2006-09-17 02:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a true friend would never go out with a buddy's ex girlfriend - you brought this on yourself - now you don't have the girl or your buddy - of all the women in the world, why her?
2006-09-17 01:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain will leave
and Happiness will once again show it self too u
trust me it always does
2006-09-17 02:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her more time n' space.....let her figure her heart out......if u really love her, then u should not talk to her at the moment...tell her to be firm n' follow her heart....when she's ready, listen to her n' do whatever is right....
2006-09-17 02:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋