ok my girlfriend went to homecomiing and i couldnt cause of my house arrest, well i found out when rap music was on she danced with other guys close but when slow songs came on she danced even closer what should i do
2006-09-16 18:36:34 · 15 answers · asked by gdog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her about it but it's not cheating she was dancing but you should ask her first before you jump to conclusions
2006-09-16 18:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by flyinghigh006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not cheating, but not all couples will go for that. I am 19 and happily married I dance with other guys and my husband knows about it. He knows we are just friends that I dance with from time to time and nothing more. Plus he knows he can trust me.
Do you trust your girlfriend? You should talk to her and let her know that it bothers you. Don't start acting like you own her and tell her she cant do it. Cause that is not going to help. First you need to find out from her if that's even true. Just ask her be like " So did you have fun at the dance" then after she replies if she don't already answer this question then ask "did you dace with anyone, if so who?"
If it turns out to be true then talk to her explain that she hurt you by dancing with other guys. That you trust her it's the other guys who don't trust and you just don't feel comfortable knowing she is dancing that close to other guys. She probably don't even realize that its a big deal too you.
By the way when on house arrest you could have just had your parents call and either tell them there is a school dance. They would have let you go to it but made you be back by a certain time. Or your parents could have said you was going somewhere with them. Then you could have went to the dance.
2006-09-17 01:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was dancing and nothing else then no technically it isnt cheating, however if a kiss was shared then u need to look at things a bit more closely. It all too easy to to imagine a situation that isnt really there based on scetchy at best details from firends and your own imagination. We live in a world where cheating is commonplace and thusly its a natrul reaction to become jeealous when aonther man dances with ur bird. I would recommend leaving it untill such time as u have someone saying to you that it went further. only then would i questino ur lady bout the night. Hope this helps take care :)
2006-09-17 01:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Phantom Viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and stay out of trouble and then you can take her to the dances and not have to worry about what she does when your stuck at home!
And to answer the rest of your question,NO! SHE ISN'T CHEATING ON YOU IF YOU KNEW SHE WAS GOING TO GO TO THE DANCE! So what she danced with a few other guys,what did you expect her to do since you couldn't go.
2006-09-17 01:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm......Who told you this? Some jerk who wants to torture you? Beware of trouble-making "friends".
It's probably true she did dance, but it's fr*ggin' homecoming! She's not supposed to put her life on hold because you messed up. Kick yourself in the pants, don't take it out on her.
Dancing is not cheating. I can see if she kissed someone you bein' upset, but you can't be upset if she dances at a (shudder) dance. Unless there's a video where she's being really outrageous, don't let it bother you. One of your buddies might be just trying to set you off and have you break up with her so he can have a shot with her. Or just wants to make you miserable at home makin' yourself crazy over what? Rumours?
2006-09-17 01:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard she did more than that. You know the 8th guy she danced with she met in the mens room and danced on his slong.
2006-09-17 01:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by backdraftemt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Tell her how it makes you feel without getting all whiny and demanding about it. Either she'll be sensitive to your feelings or she won't. If she's not, then you may want to consider whether she's the kind of girl you want to spend a lot of time with....
Good luck!
2006-09-17 01:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by princessmeltdown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of trouble so you won't be under house arrest. Why should she suffer?
2006-09-17 01:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as she did not profess her love to any of the fellows, and no body fluids were swapped, it probably does not qualify as cheating.
2006-09-17 01:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by Proud Liberal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, how is she gonna have all this fun with you if you're on house arrest.
2006-09-17 01:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by valkyrie hero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋