Ok im wondering if im the only person that is having this feelings. Im still in college, but i am having feelings to become pregnant and have a baby. is this normal? its like i really want to be a parent. Do all girls in their late teens feel this way?
2006-09-16 18:34:39 · 7 answers · asked by ahisha 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Finish college first. You are just in a stage. Babies are alot of work and money, you may not get to finish school or go back for a very long time.
2006-09-16 18:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am going to chance a guess here..... you asked what sex was only last week, so I am guessing you are not actually college age yet. Even younger girls have questions about sex and parenting, its not wrong to ask regardless of age.
As for wanting to become a parent... It is a lifelong decision and you should want more to be able to find the right man to live with for that lifelong decision with you because believe me it is alot harder to do it on your own. Also you should think about what it will take to support that child through sickness, health, and 18 - 19 yrs of clothing. Finish school and college and then find the man of your dreams before worrying about babies, they will come in time.
As for how all girls feel in late teens? There is no answer for that, each person will have different feelings.
2006-09-17 05:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you finish school. You have plenty of time to have a child. I just had my son 3 weeks ago and believe me, there's no more sleep at night and no more freedom for a while and I'm 25 years old. I'm glad I DID finish college before I had my first child and it is all well worth it now.
2006-09-17 01:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot to and alot go and get pregnant too without thinking about how they will raise the child. You can only have kids in my opinion if you have a stable relationship and the money to do it. Try to keep it just as a pleasant thought for the future.
2006-09-17 03:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is natural but being a mother is not an easy job, if you have something you want to accomplish, like studying, just finish and then think of becoming a mother. You can buy a doll and mother it.
Do not rush.
2006-09-17 01:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by RosyNut 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i agree with everyone else wait til you finish college. I have two and just now gotten back into college. I love my kids to death but i wish i would have listened to what people were telling me.
2006-09-17 02:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Shannyp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend feel this way too. And she's still in college like you.
2006-09-17 07:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by switch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋